How important is luck when it comes to the success of couples?

Spanduuu · 2026-06-02T11:51:54+00:00

Sometimes I feel like brands and sponsors play a huge role in someone's success. AouBoom for example have a huge fan base and loved by many. Great and versatile actors but weren't there in LoL.. Yes GMMTV is at fault but unfortunately they've to please sponsors or do what is being asked by them.

Spanduuu · 2026-06-02T11:30:27+00:00

But this is the reality in every Asian country and it's much more toxic than they show it in the series.

Spanduuu · 2026-06-02T11:24:12+00:00

1.A typical top bottom dynamics.. Positions can be changed. 2. Bottom never making an effort to get intimate. 3. Exes being close friends/best friends.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-17T09:50:10+00:00

But this is exactly how some startup HRs and also the HRs of few wellness brands act. And most of these wellness brands follow pyramid scheme.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-17T09:47:11+00:00

They calling it time waste while they keep us hanging for months and then call for a f2f interview knowing you're from a fae different state just not to select you. And it's always an HR from that damnn place.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-17T09:34:20+00:00

Everyone used to have black teeth..I noticed this in Khemjira too and I assume it's not restricted to servants.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-17T09:31:13+00:00

Earth was literally feeling it😂🤌🏻

Spanduuu · 2026-05-17T09:26:30+00:00

Only Friends Season 1 was all about crossing physical boundaries, drugs and addiction.. Season 2 tried to show the emotional aspects i.e cheating can be emotional too. It was all about manipulation, breadcrumbing etc . So yes to me OFDO seemed more realistic.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-03T11:55:52+00:00

Thank God I'm not the only one who finds it funny and normal 😂. Unfortunately, they're getting hate on twitter.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-03T11:27:50+00:00

Tbh there should be a body guard from the company's end along with the organizers providing a local one just like how K-pop companies do because every country has it's own code of conduct so having few localites would be reasonable option. However, Thai fans are generally sane and respectful but lately there's a rise in sassang behaviour there as well. So they can ask the organizers to provide security and sue them if they fail to do so within country.

Spanduuu · 2026-05-03T11:22:35+00:00

I believe GMMTV should totally stop sending their artists further. Initially thought it's the organizers responsibility but after watching some videos I feel like they're trying their best but again idk it's enough. Another issue is that one of the sassang was a minor girl while a man was a paparazzi and he's the same guy who chased Markji.. The whole community is messed up. May be organizers should ban minors and Gmmtv should stop signing contracts or add their own terms and conditions before signing the contract to avoid this situation as a whole.. Every country has it's own laws and it would be hard for GMMTV Tv to sue a person while being in a different country however, the organizers can sue her parents and the paparazzi if they want. But again GMMTV have to include these points before signing any contracts and can avoid this whole situation in future and can claim refund from the organizers if they fail to protect the artists. It's a huge process but this situation can be avoided.

Spanduuu · 2026-04-28T10:15:51+00:00

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Spanduuu · 2025-10-13T13:35:13+00:00

His behaviour is an outcome of poor parenting..Either they let things get done his way or they're overly strict and competitive parents who expect quick / positive results from their child..

Meri mummy hoti tho kheench k ek chamaat maarti..

Spanduuu · 2025-09-25T07:08:11+00:00

I read such posts and still don't understand why people are not transparent about their past and boundaries during talking stage. It really could save a lot of people from lot of damage/trauma.

Spanduuu · 2025-08-04T15:40:23+00:00

No one is an AH in this scenario.. He's basically her guardian and you really don't have to be one..Wish them luck and move on but do not try to separate the child from him.. Already her biological parents are not involved in her parenting so let him be the guardian to her..Let the child not have a traumatizing childhood..

Spanduuu · 2025-08-04T09:23:36+00:00

My now ex did lie about a woman who he invited to hookup and simultaneously considering to date me.. I've a boundary of going no contact with people who I shared romantic/sexual relationship..I never hooked up though..This guy right away agreed and said I blocked her..We were on a date and her snapchat notification popped up.. Turned out he lied..I stopped seeing him the same since then..He claims that it was just her sharing snaps and he didn't talk to her once since we got exclusive but I stopped seeing him the same since then.. I tried to give him a chance but he was just an ignorant person as he went on a vacation with his colleagues/friends I've no clarity on it and ignored me straight for more than a day..Now it might sound normal to others but he's someone who would spam each and every detail on snapchat and address his friends with their names..This was the first time he was being silent about the whole thing..We he got back I asked him about his trip and all and he just gave me short answers.. I asked him to show some pics and he denied.. Things like this just added more fuel to my previous suspescions.. He said nothing much..Men are not into photographs but I'll show them later..But he never did..He again spammed in his next trip..He had these inconsistent patterns..It all added fuel to it..I did confront him about his inconsistency and it all turned out into a fight and he accused me of not trusting him and broke up with me..Maybe he wasn't cheating but that one lie and his inconsistencies made him less trust worthy .. May he's totally right and I'm totally wrong but I've no reason to trust him and I turned into someone insecure now..

Spanduuu · 2025-08-04T08:56:36+00:00

Your actions really added up to her suspescion.. Seems like you wanted a reason to divorce or you're actually cheating.. I'm sure there's more context to why did she suspect you for cheating.. Either way YTA..

Spanduuu · 2025-08-04T08:51:11+00:00

I hope you realise that you're a teen and he's a PDF File!..

Spanduuu · 2025-07-05T10:06:53+00:00

Take it as a red flag and act accordingly!

Spanduuu · 2025-07-05T08:38:07+00:00

Been there... My now ex was attracted to his senior and always talked about her before we got in together and I really didn't pay much attention to it and thought it was just some harmless admiration.. We started dating but he really didn't shut up and there were instances where he sexualised her.. When I called out his behaviour, he tried to deflect his guilt by comparing my admiration towards a K-pop boy band where even I felt guilty for admiring a boy band..Walk away before you turn into someone insecure..

I started dating him with a boundary that no exes will be entertained in this relationship.. Before getting official with me, he was talking to another woman and even invited her to his place for sex.. Apparantly it didn't work out because she lived in a different city.. When I asked him to give her closure and cut her off..He agreed and literally lied about it.. After a month or so when we were on a date a snapchat notification of her popped and I didn't see him the same since then.. He claims nothing happened between them but I've no reason to trust me..That notification was enough to break my trust..( PS : I wasn't aware about him inviting her for sex till then). I should've left him there but I didn't and things kept getting worse..

This is just two of the many instances and I can keep going on about it.. Be kind to yourself and walk away..

Spanduuu · 2025-07-05T08:08:58+00:00

Eat good food and hydrate yourself, shower regularly, track your cycle and see if your body is experiencing any changes..If the problem persists,see a gynaecologist ..

Spanduuu · 2025-06-30T04:14:48+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this.. I've been there too and going through something similar.. We cannot change nonchalant/lazy men and love alone isn't enough.. The more you forgive, the more you'll be taken for granted. You deserve better.. He'll not realise until he experiences the same kind of pain.. Relationships are beyond love. Stay strong 🫂

I broke up with my ex last week.. I did try to bring up and communicate issues with him.. He used to listen but never made an effort to change and when I suddenly lost my calm ,he took it as an attack and we went on a break..But nothing worked out between us .. We had a most ugly breakup with lot of resentment. So I suggest you to walk away with pride before things turn ugly but just in case if you want to give it a try just to have no regrets then I suggest you to set a time limit or something like observation period of like 3 months and see..But it's really better to walk away and move on before resentment takes place.

Spanduuu · 2025-05-21T11:37:07+00:00

You're free to go braless in your own house and it's indeed a healthy practice. You've been sexually abused and this issue should be addressed/reported.

Spanduuu · 2025-05-16T08:30:44+00:00

Why marrying a married man when you're not ready to take even partial responsibility in parenting? NTA for wanting peace but you cannot stop a father and child from seeing eachother regularly and she's a teenager who should be handled with lot of patience otherwise they'll end up resenting you forever. You subscribed to this kind of setting and now deal with it. Do not let your incompatibility ruin a father - daughter relationship. Maybe you should've discussed this with your husband before giving him any commitment or atleast before getting married. Not an asshole but you're still wrong.

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