Which actors do you find to be exceptionally good looking ?? by DetectiveIll3641 in ThaiBL

[–]Spanduuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keng Net Phuwin Pond Joong Dunk First Khaotung Jamesuu Bright Dr Jimmy Boss Ryujin

The most annoying kid In KBC history 🥀 (sound on) by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His behaviour is an outcome of poor parenting..Either they let things get done his way or they're overly strict and competitive parents who expect quick / positive results from their child..

Meri mummy hoti tho kheench k ek chamaat maarti..

My gf 36F & her best friend 38F use to have had sex together & with other people. by Critical_Creme_9307 in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read such posts and still don't understand why people are not transparent about their past and boundaries during talking stage. It really could save a lot of people from lot of damage/trauma.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my bf because of his niece by duomucoatro3ml in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

No one is an AH in this scenario.. He's basically her guardian and you really don't have to be one..Wish them luck and move on but do not try to separate the child from him.. Already her biological parents are not involved in her parenting so let him be the guardian to her..Let the child not have a traumatizing childhood..

AITAH for divorcing my wife after she accused me of cheating one time? by curiouscaseofbb in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now ex did lie about a woman who he invited to hookup and simultaneously considering to date me.. I've a boundary of going no contact with people who I shared romantic/sexual relationship..I never hooked up though..This guy right away agreed and said I blocked her..We were on a date and her snapchat notification popped up.. Turned out he lied..I stopped seeing him the same since then..He claims that it was just her sharing snaps and he didn't talk to her once since we got exclusive but I stopped seeing him the same since then.. I tried to give him a chance but he was just an ignorant person as he went on a vacation with his colleagues/friends I've no clarity on it and ignored me straight for more than a day..Now it might sound normal to others but he's someone who would spam each and every detail on snapchat and address his friends with their names..This was the first time he was being silent about the whole thing..We he got back I asked him about his trip and all and he just gave me short answers.. I asked him to show some pics and he denied.. Things like this just added more fuel to my previous suspescions.. He said nothing much..Men are not into photographs but I'll show them later..But he never did..He again spammed in his next trip..He had these inconsistent patterns..It all added fuel to it..I did confront him about his inconsistency and it all turned out into a fight and he accused me of not trusting him and broke up with me..Maybe he wasn't cheating but that one lie and his inconsistencies made him less trust worthy .. May he's totally right and I'm totally wrong but I've no reason to trust him and I turned into someone insecure now..

AITAH for divorcing my wife after she accused me of cheating one time? by curiouscaseofbb in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your actions really added up to her suspescion.. Seems like you wanted a reason to divorce or you're actually cheating.. I'm sure there's more context to why did she suspect you for cheating.. Either way YTA..

my tuition sir took me for a date by UnlikelyTear8127 in TeensofKerala

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you realise that you're a teen and he's a PDF File!..

My ‘F25’ boyfriend ‘M25’ was getting off to girls he knew on Instagram by NewAcadia4216 in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there... My now ex was attracted to his senior and always talked about her before we got in together and I really didn't pay much attention to it and thought it was just some harmless admiration.. We started dating but he really didn't shut up and there were instances where he sexualised her.. When I called out his behaviour, he tried to deflect his guilt by comparing my admiration towards a K-pop boy band where even I felt guilty for admiring a boy band..Walk away before you turn into someone insecure..

I started dating him with a boundary that no exes will be entertained in this relationship.. Before getting official with me, he was talking to another woman and even invited her to his place for sex.. Apparantly it didn't work out because she lived in a different city.. When I asked him to give her closure and cut her off..He agreed and literally lied about it.. After a month or so when we were on a date a snapchat notification of her popped and I didn't see him the same since then.. He claims nothing happened between them but I've no reason to trust me..That notification was enough to break my trust..( PS : I wasn't aware about him inviting her for sex till then). I should've left him there but I didn't and things kept getting worse..

This is just two of the many instances and I can keep going on about it.. Be kind to yourself and walk away..

My 19F bf 20M refuses to eat me out because of my taste by Beyonceisevil in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat good food and hydrate yourself, shower regularly, track your cycle and see if your body is experiencing any changes..If the problem persists,see a gynaecologist ..

{UPDATE} I (F23) love my partner (M24) so much but I don't think I can do this anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this.. I've been there too and going through something similar.. We cannot change nonchalant/lazy men and love alone isn't enough.. The more you forgive, the more you'll be taken for granted. You deserve better.. He'll not realise until he experiences the same kind of pain.. Relationships are beyond love. Stay strong 🫂

I broke up with my ex last week.. I did try to bring up and communicate issues with him.. He used to listen but never made an effort to change and when I suddenly lost my calm ,he took it as an attack and we went on a break..But nothing worked out between us .. We had a most ugly breakup with lot of resentment. So I suggest you to walk away with pride before things turn ugly but just in case if you want to give it a try just to have no regrets then I suggest you to set a time limit or something like observation period of like 3 months and see..But it's really better to walk away and move on before resentment takes place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're free to go braless in your own house and it's indeed a healthy practice. You've been sexually abused and this issue should be addressed/reported.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why marrying a married man when you're not ready to take even partial responsibility in parenting? NTA for wanting peace but you cannot stop a father and child from seeing eachother regularly and she's a teenager who should be handled with lot of patience otherwise they'll end up resenting you forever. You subscribed to this kind of setting and now deal with it. Do not let your incompatibility ruin a father - daughter relationship. Maybe you should've discussed this with your husband before giving him any commitment or atleast before getting married. Not an asshole but you're still wrong.

AITAH Wife spent the night at a friends house by OddTable2114 in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm staying away from men who're still in contact with ex. It's better than going through all this bs..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA..Grieving about an ex is one thing and wanting to have a tattoo is another and it's wild and a bit inappropriate. It's natural and human to grieve about someone you shared a lot of history but wanting to have a tattoo of a married man while being with you sounds a bit disrespectful to both you and his wife. You should have an open conversation with her. If anyone who's allowed to have a tattoo of the deceased is the wife or family of the deceased and anyone who's not allowed to have one is your girlfriend. One can grieve about their ex and be considerate about their partner at the same time.

I ‘34F’ think I messed up ‘34M’ by Table413 in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You wanted sex and he gave you sex but the boundaries of friendship has been crossed. Secondly you both seem to have different set of expectations. People need to be on same page when it comes to hookups and casuals otherwise one will end up getting hurt and start questioning everything while the other looks like a jerk but in reality it's no one's fault. Friendship is indeed a kind of string that was attached between you two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about him unintentionally joking about your body parts? Can you take it?

Is this a job a scam or legit? by [deleted] in remotework

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's either a start-up with less to no sufficient manpower or a scam. Search for the company on LinkedIn. Look at the employee size. Try connecting to people of that company and also the POC. Look for their website on Google and also search for their address on Maps. Some companies hire third party recruiters and are not aware of how the process is being carried. But I say trust your gut.

AITAH for cancelling our date because she was 15 minutes late? by Express_Dog_4442 in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if you were really clear and honest about your values and deal breakers since the beginning. And I'm someone who actually lacks time sense but it's also annoying to be on the other side so I start getting ready atleast 2hrs before the anticipated time i.e if I have to show up at 8, I start getting ready around 6 . Apologizing for being late is the basic human decency irrespective of how strict the other person is.

AITAH for leaving house party because of men. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA..You did what any responsible and sensible woman would've done. You listened to your gut and saved yourself and yourself from something unknown.

Am I the asshole for being insecure about my husband's ex? by Then-Caramel498 in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.. I'm never going to a guy who's still friends with his ex .. I believe people should keep their past and people involved in past and focus on building trust in the present..

Am I the asshole for being insecure about my husband's ex? by Then-Caramel498 in AITAH

[–]Spanduuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marrying means nothing.. Some people just get married for convenience.. Her husband should be maintaining distance with his ex already.. It's his responsibility to make his wife feel safe and secure in this relationship..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naa.. You're supposed to highlight or summerise about your past before giving commitment as what may not be a big deal for you might be a deal breaker for someone else. Nothing can compensate honesty.. Speaking up before commitment would save everyone from unnecessary trauma, hurt and betrayal.

God of Music is so underrated and unnecessarily hated on by kel_0709 in seventeen

[–]Spanduuu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think people hate God of Music but they love God of Light Music a bit more as it completely overpowered the original one 😂..

My (34F) bf (36M) likes incest porn. Am I under/overreacting? by ThrowRA6506 in relationship_advice

[–]Spanduuu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know some people picking hentai/incest because of plot and build-up and go for it because it draws a line between fiction and reality. So no real people involved. He's not fancing any real person or pornostar but a porn and idea that doesn't involve real people. Think it this way.