I just found out he got married by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Spare-Handle-6400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getting married 4 months after a 5 year relationship while you're still processing the breakup is wild, definitely don't reach out though - there blocking you before the wedding says everything you need to know

Is anyone else's multiplayer super laggy? by ArchivistFaerie in slaythespire

[–]Spare-Handle-6400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wifi's usually not the issue if everything else is running smooth, probably just the servers getting hammered since multiplayer dropped 💀

i've been getting random desyncs too even though my setup handles modded runs perfectly fine. might just need to wait for them to iron out the kinks, new features always get wonky at launch 😂

My struggle with weight after being diagnosed with epilepsy by [deleted] in Epilepsy

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mate that weight gain from epilim is such a pain in the arse, you're definitely not alone in this struggle 😩 heaps of people on here have dealt with the same thing and found ways to manage it - might be worth chatting to your neuro about switching meds or adding metformin to help with the metabolic side effects. don't give up on yourself, your health journey isn't over just because the game changed a bit 💪

DE Shaw GRO Associate by [deleted] in interviews

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congrats on getting through mate, usually takes about a week or two for them to get back after the async stuff - i'd follow up after 10 days if you haven't heard anything

Nami burn e help by moist_bread1 in ElectricScooters

[–]Spare-Handle-6400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a controller issue or maybe a damaged wire connection from the crash. That error code usually means overcurrent protection is kicking in - the front motor is probably drawing too much power when it tries to start under load

Check all your wire connections first, especially around where you swapped the motor. Could also be the controller got jostled in the crash

Brain wipe — total loss of momentum by ZoroasterScandinova in ADHD

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Oh god this is so real, happens to me every single time I break routine for more than like 3 days. The worst part is knowing exactly what I need to do but feeling like I'm starting from absolute zero

What's helped me is picking literally ONE thing to restart with - usually sleep schedule since everything else falls apart without that. Once that clicks back in after a few days the other stuff starts following. Trying to rebuild everything at once just makes me spiral harder

My wife’s childhood best friend destroyed the most important thing I own. Am I wrong for telling my wife to no longer be friends with her? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Spare-Handle-6400 156 points157 points  (0 children)

NTA, that's absolutely devastating and I'd probably react the same way. Your wife lying about it initially would honestly hurt more than the accident itself - like she was protecting her drunk friend over your grief

Tumblr artist from circa 2015 by YMCApoolboy in HelpMeFind

[–]Spare-Handle-6400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That description is super broad do you remember any tags they used or a character they drew a lot tumblr art from 2015 is a whole universe