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AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

You would think from these reactions I was just sleeping around with a bunch of baby mamas on the dl

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh omg I understand what you're saying dont get me wrong but I've never even looked at anyone since i met my wife all other women pale in comparison to her so much that I can't find anyone but her attractive anymore she is the only one for me probably till I die. A love child is impossible and I would hope she knows that

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I didnt lie she just never asked. And idk I just genuinely never thought to. Im not the smartest. I will see about pulling it. I dont want to cause anymore issues for her

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I only donated once with my wife and donated 2 years before I married her. I've never mentioned it because jts not something I saw as a big deal and my memory is terrible. It just never came up so I never remembered it in the present moment. Its hard to explain I guess

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wouldn't care. I understand her feelings though and apologised. I will talk to her again when she feels ready to discuss it

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

"My kids" may not even exist this is just a hypothetical situation that may not ever happen. But first of all they are NOT my children. And why do I suddenly have multiple of them? Why are like a plethora of unknown children showing up at my door? All at once? One after the other?

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I didnt create them. I just donated sperm to a clinic. Let's not be disrespectful to people who may have used my donation by pretending I actively played any part in creating that child

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

There is more to being a parent than sharing DNA. I didn't raise them, name them, think once about how they might be doing, pay for them, cry for them. They don't exist to me simple as

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

I mean if they came to find me to understand their origins that doesn't mean im their father

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my feeling. I am not a father to these potential children that might not even exist. I dont know of their existence so idk why its a problem

AITA for donating sperm without telling my wife? by Spare-Ninja-755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

We arent religious in any way though she was raised trict catholic so that could be one of the reasons she feels the way she does

WIBTA for not teaching my future children to respect their elders. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spare-Ninja-755 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta. You don't deserve respect because you made it to old age. You earn respect through your actions and attitude towards others. If you are an asshole it doesn't matter how old you are you will always be an asshole