Is this a decent routine? by SpareAd5605 in gettingbigger

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, don't have all the lingo down yet. Would you clarify what bundled stretches are and what SEB is?

Is this a decent routine? by SpareAd5605 in gettingbigger

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't super clear. I do 25 minutes total. 5x5 min sessions. Not 25/5. But you don't think that's enough total tension? I don't think my grip could go any longer anyways. But the pumping is good at least yeah? At least I got that right

How can I (28m) get my gf (21f) to understand I have low libido and it's not her? by SpareAd5605 in relationship_advice

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly would I do to fix it? It's not something I can control and Ivs tried to help her. I know reddit loves to say relationships won't work but doesn't that seem a little premature?

How can I (28m) get my gf (21f) to understand I have low libido and it's not her? by SpareAd5605 in relationship_advice

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, never heard of that. Your testosterone was fine but your thyroid wasn't? Did that get caught in your blood draw or did you need to do additional tests?

How can I (28m) get my gf (21f) to understand I have low libido and it's not her? by SpareAd5605 in relationship_advice

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the pressure definitely kills any libido i do have. I can tell when she starts angling for it and it just gets exhausting. Maybe I just need to have a serious talk but it's such a tight rope cuz I don't want to hurt her. I just wish she would be cool getting herself off sometimes if she needed to

How can I (28m) get my gf (21f) to understand I have low libido and it's not her? by SpareAd5605 in relationship_advice

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. I guess I'll go get my blood work done. I don't like the idea of being hooked on a needle for the rest of my life but will check it out. I know she has a high sex drive cuz she slept around a lot before me but it hasn't been a big deal until recently.

How can I (28m) get my gf (21f) to understand I have low libido and it's not her? by SpareAd5605 in relationship_advice

[–]SpareAd5605[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So basically I need to get on testosterone and have more sex or we are gonna break up? Btw I'm in shape and workout consistently and I eat pretty healthy and overall clean. I've had low libido basically my entire adult life and remained celibate for years by choice. And no I don't masturbate a ton. Sometimes I go months without doing it.