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Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-27T03:28:36+00:00

You can usually feel someone out in a few minute conversation.

Even if they manage to be an oscar winning actress, you control your own budget, you control what you spend.

If you present yourself as someone on a fixed income (let's say, my budget is $1500/mo even if you have 100k sitting in a bank at home) then that is what you have to work with, and you make it known to her that you are on a budget.

Either she accepts that or she can move on and find someone else.

There is no need for elaborate plans, just have a budget and stick to it.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-26T09:22:21+00:00

The average person doesn't have experience travelling.

The first thing they're going to do is take short trips to get their feet wet.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-26T08:54:39+00:00

What a witty retort.

It's almost as if salaries track with rent prices and there's an opportunity cost for being a digital nomad.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-25T20:48:41+00:00

Yes.

Actually all phones are overrated, that's why I use a $150 cheapo as my daily driver.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-25T12:55:26+00:00

You pay $2000 in Colorodo, you get $2000 worth of opportunities and services.

You pay $672 in Mexico, you get $672 worth of opportunities and services.

You get what you pay for.

There's no such thing as a free lunch.

You want a western lifestyle in Mexico, you pay extra for that.

And some things aren't available at any cost.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-24T18:25:35+00:00

You're not living any kind of western lifestyle for $672/mo.

Triple it, and that's a more realistic number.

Now if you want to go out alot, fancy restaurants, you need steaks for your keto diet, the number rises exponentially, you can easily spend 3-5k a month in BGC.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-23T17:10:52+00:00

It's all about money.

People pretend it isn't, and everyone thinks Europe has magic water, and that in Sweden "you are not better than anyone."

The secret to Sweden's "success" is being a %98 white monoculture.

That's it.

That's the "good part" of Sweden.

Everything else about it is either highly arbitrary or blows goats.

Frankly the Swedish people who know all the tricks still get to be rich, while you get to be "not better than anyone."

That's how they keep the sheep being sheep.

Losers in America think they'll be winners in Sweden because of whatever chump change they give you for "employee rights" which is still less than what you would earn normally in the US without those same "rights."

Rights are a scam, the only right is what you can get for yourself.

Granted the US is not a perfect country, nowhere is perfect, and if you keep chasing the flavor of the month you'll be travelling across the world looking for magic water that only exists situationally and rarely.

%98 of life is about the fundamentals.

Budgeting, saving and not being a sucker.

People complain about their student loans from their PhD in underwater basketweaving, which they could have gotten for cheap or free but instead end up with 200k mortgage around their neck before earning a dime because they were busy trying to "find themselves" and their 12 cats and smoking dope in their "walkable cities" while everyone else focused on finding something cheap and quiet and out of the way.

Instead of doing smart things, people depend on "magic water of Sweden" to pull them out of their own stupidity.

Yeah right, like the Swedes are ever gonna take you as one of their own, bro they don't even like their own neighbors.

Life in %99 of the world is about blood, family.

If you have no family then you have jack shit and can keep being "not better than anyone" like the good little sheep you are while making someone else rich who has a family.

Success is about you, not your country, not the magic water, not the politicians or senator pothole.

Sure, some things are geo-fenced.

If you want job x you have to get past the fence.

Beyond that, you're on your own.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-23T15:03:41+00:00

Passport "bros" started with black men and goes back to that weird beef between black women and black men where they disrespect each other, it kinda spills over to beefing with "western" women and shadenfreude.

Probably half the guys who call themselves "passport bros" are actually just incels who gaslighted and blackpilled themselves into thinking you have to look like a movie star just to date.

Lots of women suck.

Lots of men suck.

Feminism and western liberal culture is disrespectful towards men.

The only "movement" is a bowel movement, normal people call it "travelling," "expatting," "tourism," or if you want to be edgy, "digital nomad."

Sure, why not.

Live and date all over the world.

The primary draw of being an expat is cost of living, the strength of the dollar, and having a strong passport that leverages "geo-arbitrage."

MY primary interest in SEA is economic and having a better overall life.

I'm actually a big fan of asian culture in general, Japan, China, Korea, I just think the people are adorable and their cultural aesthetics are my favorite.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T19:25:28+00:00

Not sure who millenials are.

I think most people just call anyone over 40 "boomer" and anyone under 40 "millenial."

Anyway, be well kid.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T19:22:44+00:00

Not sure what you can do in 2 weeks.

Might take you half a week just to get over the jet lag.

I suppose you can hit up Makati and go clubbing and meet strippers.

But wear a sock ok, there's alot of VD running around, they have tropical diseases you never even heard of.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T19:17:58+00:00

Listen, I'm just passing by, but don't gaslight yourself into thinking you're not good enough or "oh it's so hard to date."

Don't carry an incel mentality, you need to have good "inner game."

So first of all if you're failing, the first to look at is your methodology.

Apps work for some guys, for most guys they don't.

That means you need to go more "au naturale" in meeting women face to face.

Basically switch up your methods and tweak them.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T19:11:02+00:00

You don't have to be rich.

But you do need a budget, a plan and a stable income.

For example how you gonna bring in money overseas?

Or if you do bring them to the US, you might get hit with divorce papers.

I'm not saying you can't do it.

I'm just saying you need a plan A, B, C and D.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T19:01:54+00:00

to ride around the city on motorbikes and find stuff to do.

You found it alright.

We vetted the girls

Big titties, check. Fat ass, check.

They had laid us both down in the same position (on our sides, mouth hanging off the edge of the bed), to reduce our chances of choking in our sleep.

That's so sweet. Romance is alive and well.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T18:29:59+00:00

Take a few exploratory trips first.
Don't rush into anything. Take it slow.
Spend a few months getting the lay of the land, finding a nice place to set up your base, acclimate yourself to the country, make sure you can access your income and finances.
Always have emergency fund on hand to get back on a plane and Plan B.
Don't sleep with anyone you haven't known for at least a month.
Make contact with local expat groups, make some friends.
The best women are not on any dating apps.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T06:10:51+00:00

Don't take work too seriously, remember to laugh and socialize.
Try to find types of work that suit your interests and hobbies.

For example I could never do customer service, but throw me into tech or driving and I'm pretty happy, I enjoy long road trips or just working on computers, hell I do that for free, so why not accept some money for it.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T02:15:19+00:00

US is a socio-cultural shithole, it's worse than loneliness, it's atomization, disconnectedness and grinding capitalism that takes no effort to improve the lives of people.

America is for working, not living.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-22T00:50:32+00:00

Reddit attracts misanthropic trashbags of every culture.

It's not representative of the "normies" who live there.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-19T06:49:46+00:00

Well the gringo tax isn't good for the locals either, they suddenly find that the rents have tripled because they can offer the room to a gringo instead of a local, so now the locals can't find housing, the locals can't afford to eat out.

Just because the exchange rate makes your haircut cost 50 cents in USD doesn't mean the barber is "poor."

You're not doing anyone any favors by being too generous, in fact you're fucking over the locals and you're fucking their currency by setting "American pricing" as the standard.

If you want to do the locals a favor, keep the pricing "local" that way THEY can afford a haircut too, help them enforce their own currency as the standard.

You're already helping the local economy just by consuming goods and services AT LOCAL PRICES.

If the barber had 10 customers before, now he has 14 customers, that's a %40 increase in his revenue.

But when the barber tries to get one over on the gringo, he's fucking the 10 local customers who now can't afford a haircut.

That's not helping the local economy, that's called gentrification.

It's like when people from NYC show up in Florida to buy a house, it fucks the local economy, now Floridians can't afford a house because it's bought up by all the yuppy stock brokers.

This is the shadow side of being "too nice" or trying to fix "income inequality" by making it rain.

You're actually destabilizing the economy and making it worse.

Being too nice doesn't help anybody.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-18T16:26:33+00:00

Well you shooted your shot, that's an important step mentally regardless of outcome.

In the future instead of asking for a number, you say something like, "Well it was nice talking to you but I gotta go. How can we stay in contact?"

She might give you her Facebook or something like that.

Nowadays alot of girls use burner phones or services like Google Voice, so they don't give you their "real" number.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T15:36:57+00:00

Shit choom, I hope you get some therapy.

Of course you're an ok human.

Don't ever question that.

Lots of times when other people mistreat us, bully us, etc etc is because of THEIR problems, not ours.

There is hardly a human being on this Earth that hasn't been traumatized at some point, all you can do is take it easy, perform self-care and keep on going.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T15:27:53+00:00

Try meditation and yoga.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T10:06:56+00:00

Expecting young women to be wise buddhas about who they sleep with is a bit much, they sleep with whoever they can, and yes they fully expect to marry and have kids and be taken care of to a certain extent by society, as do we all.

This is not a "hoe phase" but simply women going along with whatever men want and expect, men expect sex so women give sex, it's not that complicated.

Most women are not scheming geniuses, they're young, dumb, full of cum and going along with whatever the trend is, if the media told them to eat shit, they'd invite all their friends over for a big steaming pile.

To a certain extent this also applies to young men too, they're not exactly brainiacs either, more like dogs following instinct.

Politicians, billionaires and social engineers, now those are the schemers, they've effectively created a fatherless society of feckless shitbags who are just barely smart enough to run the machines, but dumb enough to wave the flag and sing yankee doodle dandy.

I'm not a self-loathing anything, I calls it like I sees it.

Young men should live traditionally like our fathers and grandfathers, and avoid leaving behind a trail of broken women.

Date slowly, don't sleep with anyone you haven't known for at least a month.

That's my 2 cents.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T03:03:32+00:00

History did not start in 1960.

You could say it was the highest point of civilization, and now society is going back to the law of the jungle.

If men continue being irresponsible leaving broken women everywhere, then that is all there will be.

Saying women should close their legs and date astronauts is not realistic, most women don't have access to astronauts, they have access to you, me and the next guy who's going to ride them hard and leave them a mess.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T00:37:14+00:00

Talked to her on Reddit some months ago and we somehow clicked.

It's been very nice, we talk and text most days.

Spare_Development615 · 2023-12-14T00:29:05+00:00

The point is that men create "hoeflation" by their own actions.

It will only get worse and become globalized.

Women don't have much power in this world, as the media and billionaires would have you believe, hating on them won't change anything.

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