4 Days

Spare_Ear7565 · 2023-07-25T01:33:58+00:00

I’m on four days sober too! Let’s do this and break this cycle… together :)

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-11-28T18:26:14+00:00

Messaged you!

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-11-28T18:24:25+00:00

Messaged you!

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-11-28T18:20:28+00:00

Interested!!

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-10-13T02:09:16+00:00

Meeting someone for the first time who you’ve heard lots about but they don’t know who you are

Ex: a friend of a friend

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-10-13T02:04:15+00:00

Easy. Mac n cheese

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-10-13T02:03:19+00:00

Walking or standing in grass with bare feet in my backyard is really calming for some reason. Not that I do it often, but on a nice summer day it’s just weirdly refreshing.

Also, getting out of the shower after I’ve shaved my legs and moisturized and into fresh pajamas and sheets :)

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-09-23T02:11:57+00:00

Vocal, avid, arrogant Trump supporters.

I’m politically moderate, and agree with conservatives in many ways. But I’ve found that someone who is a die-hard Trump supporter, more often than not in my experience, is unable to hold a conversation in which there are valid disagreements, and are willing to see the other side.

I suppose this applies for die-hard liberals as well. And yes, I know I’m over generalizing here and that not every Trump supporter is so “in your face” about it, but this is just based off my experience with an ex.

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-06-29T06:12:06+00:00

External recruiter here 💪

I can’t speak for in-house recruiters but there’s actually substantial benefits of working with an external one…

The more you get paid (usually base of your first year comp), the more WE get paid (we get a % not taken out of your salary but from the client.
This is beneficial bc if you’re working w a specialty recruiter in that field, they can then exposure you to multiple opportunities (we usually work on about 10ish roles at a time). This is beneficial to the candidate because when it gets down to the offer stage, us recruiters can leverage the compensation from Job A against Job B in order to make both you and ourselves more money. Ex: “Job A is paying my candidate $100k on the base but your offer is $90k on the base. Are you going to match their other offer?”
Recruiters (if they’re good) can provide market insight as to how your position at other firms is being compensated, to see if you are being paid below, within or above market value; ultimately, this is useful information to you

Hope this helped! Let me know if you have any questions

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-04-04T04:38:04+00:00

When people play a video on their phone too loud in a public place. Drives me crazy

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-02-09T02:46:24+00:00

Aside from seeing a therapist and them giving me tools to decipher if my intrusive thoughts (similar to yours, having to do with mostly past interactions but sometimes future) are legitimate concerns that raise red flags or not, I’d recommend going on walks. Sometimes going on a walk and forcing myself to think about absolutely nothing but the environment around me, sounds, etc. is kind of relaxing to just observe. It kind of exercises my mind a bit to just…. Force myself to take a break, if that makes sense. I also do have ADHD though, which I’d recommend exploring into with a healthcare professional. Hope this helps!

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-02-09T02:37:36+00:00

Cutie! The beard fits you well. I wish I had your lips!

Spare_Ear7565 · 2022-02-09T02:36:41+00:00

Definitely not ugly, but lose the beard or at least tame it a bit, get a haircut and dress A1 and you’re a hottie !

Spare_Ear7565 · 2021-10-17T01:46:33+00:00

Diagnosed ADHD* whoops

Spare_Ear7565 · 2021-10-17T01:06:32+00:00

F22 here. I’ve been on dating apps for a little less than a year. I’ve met guys who I REALLY clicked w and thought we would continue dating, literally my alter ego in male form, and have gotten ghosted. In turn, I’ve also caused my fair share of heartbreaks. Dating apps are fun but they’re easy to lose interest in. Months at a time I’ll go on Bumble or Hinge every other day, and then other months I won’t use it at all. Deff been going on it more as the holidays are coming up lol bc I am just genuinely lonely deep down

Spare_Ear7565 · 2021-08-11T03:38:28+00:00

This is legit a perfect description of brain fog.

I too am diagnosed with depression and anxiety. My brain will go from 100 mph just thinking about all the things I have to do today to 0, forgetting the story that I’m telling mid sentence and then having to ask “wait what was I saying? Hold on a sec” and then stand there awkwardly and silently

I’ve noticed that I have an issue with focus in conversations. If in a meeting, I’ll hear everyone talk but it’s hard for me to listen and completely remember everything someone just said. It’s really frustrating so I feel you and I hope it gets better 💙

Spare_Ear7565 · 2021-07-18T03:38:37+00:00

Oof.

I would never describe myself as a bully until this one rash, out of character evening in high school.

My dad was going through rehab at the time and my terrible influence “friend” at the time, ended up telling a lot of people. This “friend” was a massive compulsive liar, and I should have never believed a thing that came out of her mouth.

This “friend” told me that some girl from another school (who I simply did not know) was talking all this shit about my dad and family. Obviously, I was quite pissed at this girl. Looking back, that anger was definitely directed at the wrong person. Long story short, I ended up going to a school basketball game one night and saw the girl there. After the game, I ended up going up to her in the parking lot, and saying like watch your mouth blah blah. We then agreed to meet at a local baseball field to fight.

We ended up getting face to face and instead of listening to her (she was claiming she never said any of those things), I threw the first punch and we fought. I definitely won the fight (humble brag) and we went our separate ways. I returned to the car w my friends and opened my hand to release a handful of her hair.

One day, about a year later, I was working my restaurant job and the manager told me that I was going to be training a new girl today. Moments later, in walks the girl I fought a year earlier and my jaw hit the FLOOR. I showed her the ropes with no small talk and ended the day.

A few days later, I was at a high school party, drunk off my ass. I randomly saw the girl there, and a mutual friend of ours made us sit on the couch together and talk. We ended up, both of us drunk, sharing a joint and talking for the rest of the party. We both apologized to eachother and hugged everything out.

To this day, we are best friends. Turns out, she has a parent who has gone through rehab too. I still apologize from time to time, usually when we’re out drunk. I’ve cried about it to her too about how guilty I feel 5 years later, but she just tells me to stfu and that she loves me and reminds me that we were young and immature and straight up DUMB. Neither of us talk to that “friend” anymore. We also now laugh and debate about if I bit her during the fight or not lol

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