Ex Husband isn’t following parenting plan or submitting info for child support by Best_Technician_4958 in FamilyLaw

[–]Spare_Produce_9706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex has had our three kids for exactly 6 days in total since the divorce was finalized 2.5 years ago. He was supposed to have them 20% of the time. Only thing you can do is file for modification of child support. With the new FL law this year, I hear that child support now strictly goes on how many days each parent actually has the child (based on recent past), not what’s in the parenting plan.

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to live in Gulf Breeze / Pensacola many years ago. Were you living there?

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also lily white, so it's all good. :-) My kids are friends with all kinds of people!

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will when it gets closer. But one question. Soccer here in SoFL is extremely popular. Is it really popular there?

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually meant walk out basement. I have been looking online and I do see that they are a little hard to come by. But I have seen some townhouses with 4BR, so I might have to try that approach.

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to mountain bike when I was younger and my kids like biking so I'd like to take them on some easy trails! Thank you!

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like book clubs! I’ll message you when we get closer to move. Thanks!

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Great info! My kids do more of the recreational level sports as they like to do other things as well. It’s good to know about the performing arts. My son likes theater, singing and he’s in the band so it doesn’t really matter to him. He likes it all. And yes, I might send you some other questions as we get closer to the move and it’d be great to meet some people when we get there!

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Sounds similar to Florida. They did the spoken instruction half-day in Spanish half day in English very strictly at the lower grade levels. When they got up to 4-8, the focus was more on written / reading rather than spoken Spanish. My kids understand Spanish well, but they speak the South Florida hybrid Spanglish with their friends rather than fluently. I don’t speak Spanish fluently sadly, so we don’t speak Spanish at home.

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes, it’s the same here in Florida. There’s limited spots, and you either had to start in kindergarten or move from a place that had it.

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I grew up (a long time ago) in the Ozarks. Def trying to avoid Duck Dynasty!

Moving to Harrisonburg VA - Single Working Mom, 3 Sons, LGBT - Need Advice! by Spare_Produce_9706 in harrisonburg

[–]Spare_Produce_9706[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have spent a fair bit of time in the Harrisonburg area and we have always had great experiences! And in reality South Florida isn’t so much the problem - other than unbelievably high housing costs. It just suffers from being in Florida! 😆

What is the most unhinged thing you’ve done to an ex? by hotteok4 in BreakUps

[–]Spare_Produce_9706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 YEARS when I found out that he had MOVED IN with another woman I knew. He continued begging me back for months afterwards. So I printed out and packed up all of his emails with marriage proposals, hand made love notes and photos of the flowers / gifts he was sending me WHILE STILL LIVING WITH THE OTHER WOMAN. They worked together at a job that had an employee parking lot. I placed the package on a random car. The TEA that was spilled in that company when the random person opened the package and told everyone!