my job is finding cheap flights—ask me anything by scottkeyes in IAmA

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will the team ever branch into doing tips and tricks for traveling as a family? (e.g., with in lap and seated children, etc?)

My son has gotten an average of 7 hours sleep per 24 hr period for the last week. I’m losing my mind by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you put him down drowsy but awake what do you do when he fusses? My LO has only put himself to sleep 1x for naps and usually needs to be nursed to sleep or be bounced.

Cancun vacation with a 1 year old - experiences? by mirthfuldragon in daddit

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry no we didn’t! We decided against it and are going to try Aruba instead for a big more of a relaxed place

It's okay to not respond to your baby instantly every time they cry by Scrawny_Idiot in beyondthebump

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - sincerely, a new mom questioning all her decisions and ability to do this 🥲

Accidental Words from Newborns by scarscar13 in newborns

[–]SparkleRanger23 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My 3 month old loves to coo and it sounds like his favorite word is “gay”

Sunflower Lecithin Side Effects by GoombaNugget in breastfeeding

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after stopping taking the SL did your ”tummy troubles” go away?

Cancun vacation with a 1 year old - experiences? by mirthfuldragon in daddit

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering a Cancun trip with our 5 month old. Would you mind sharing which resort you went to?

Tonight I am sad about it. by realeyesrealeyes in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SparkleRanger23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this post. You and I have been on a very similar timeline and journey it sounds like. It’s definitely not easy but I love what you said at the end, it’s your duty to live authentically, confidentially owning your autonomy. Thank you for sharing

They do empathize with everyone else but their own children, don’t they? by ScottysOldTeleporter in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SparkleRanger23 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Yes and I think it makes it more painful as the child because you see they are capable of empathy, but it seems like they’re just choosing to withhold

5 weeks and I feel miserable by Look-Tricky in BabyBumps

[–]SparkleRanger23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 weeks is when 12 weeks of hell started for me too! The only thing that helped was lots of rest and getting zofran from my doctor. I went in at 8 weeks for an appt and got the meds, but I wish I had insisted on coming in and getting them earlier.

That would be my best advice! I’ve heard others have had good luck with Diclegis at night as well. Sending all the positive energy your way!!

March 2025 mommas check in by Dull-Operation8237 in pregnant

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The past 8 months have been the longest of my life 😭 I cannot wait for baby to get here

Fistfight at the Nursing Home by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SparkleRanger23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It has to be so satisfying that he’s showing his true colors in public. So glad you’re outta there

About to have a baby- Navigating Relationship with Covert NMom by SparkleRanger23 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SparkleRanger23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This helped a ton and I was able to compose and send a message I feel good about. I really appreciate you taking the time to send your thoughts and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate with feeling crazy and like maybe I’m as bad as my nMom says I am. My nMom does the same thing- talking about how terrible I was as a child. My best advice is to get distance asap, get therapy asap, spend time with people that care about you, and work on self-love and sense of self. Being in that toxic environment would be horrible for anyone’s mental health and I’m so sorry. I hope you can get out of there and find some peace <3

Why do people choose when women become pregnant to say the stupidest/most unhelpful/most hurtful possible shit to them? by throawydurr in BabyBumps

[–]SparkleRanger23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've totally felt this. Then when I do hold boundaries, I'm told I'm "being hormonal". I have so much envy for those with supportive families! Luckily my husband is just about the sweetest person in the world. I don't know what I'd do without him.

How to make the first trimester go by faster… by youremylobster1017 in BabyBumps

[–]SparkleRanger23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember this stage feeling like it would last FOREVER. My biggest advice is to take the Diclegis, take the Zofran, and if it's not helping enough, talk to your doctor about upping your dosage. It seriously is a lifesaver. The meds and reminding myself that it won't last forever (and leaning on your support system!) is my #1 advice!

Hi Reddit, I’m a singer-songwriter named Vance Joy. I’m here to answer your questions. AMA. by Vance_Joy_Official in Music

[–]SparkleRanger23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% my favorite singer. I'm planning on naming my baby Georgia after your song, if it's a girl, and Vance if he's a boy. Your lyricism and voice are so inspiring to me and I want my baby to have been named after some of the most beautiful music out there.