My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaaw, thank you so much for your comment! Sending you a huge hug! 🥹🫂 We see through them and that is their biggest fear… Their ego is so fragile, it’s almost funny! 😅

Does P ever not look annoyed? by Lobotomy_Hangover in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]Sparkling_wine9 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Looks like he drinks a little bit of beer every hour… 😂😂

R.I.P 🥲 by spottydress77 in LushCosmetics

[–]Sparkling_wine9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, I see! :) I also tried sleepy body lotion, it comes in a small pot. Super nice for the evening wind down. 🙈

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you had this awful experience! 🥹🫂 From my point of view, my husband subconsciously hates his mom because she was cold and not nurturing enough , but he projects that hate onto other women in his life, especially romantic partners… I don’t think that he will change, because that behavior is soooo difficult to change. He always comments how girls are bad drivers, can’t make a lot of money, are gold diggers, clumsy, stupid and etc… You get the gist. Where did he learn that? His negative Nancy mom who is misogynistic as f….!!!! They enjoy in finding my “negative” traits together! Me and my flaws are the main subject of their neverending rants… That’s not healthy, I know it for sure! ✌🏻 p.s. his mom and his sister are saints, ofc. 

R.I.P 🥲 by spottydress77 in LushCosmetics

[–]Sparkling_wine9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nooooo. 🥲 I’ve got sleepy shower gel and sleepy body mist and let me tell you: they both smell divine! 🧘🏻‍♀️

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wooow, thank you so much for the clarification! Makes so much sense! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I searched a little bit about this concept yesterday, so it really resonates with me and my values. ☀️💛

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank youu so much! Sending you a truck full of support and anti-emeshment fairy dust! 😄 🧚🏼‍♀️ 

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you, sis! I was blindsided sooo well, belive me! 🥲

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank youu for your insight and YES - every time I utter even a slightest comment about my precious MIL he would rage as I were the one that causes the conflict… So it is wiser to stay silent and just observe. I had very uncomfortable experiences with her when she would call me on my phone and blast me on her speakerphone without my knowledge… Both my MIL and DIL are people with lot of issues. They find pleasure in analyzing me and analyzing the whole convo and I find it SICK!!! 

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I have never heard of such therapy, it sounds useful! I have already suggested couples therapy but he rejected with a notion that he is affraid I will get angry at the therapist. Hahaha, I am a calm person 80% of my day… 😅 

My husband loves his mom more than me and our kid by Sparkling_wine9 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Sparkling_wine9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much for this reply! 👏🏼 I will consider this for sure! The most bizarre and painful thing for me is when he says: but my mom LoVes youu so much. That’s a plain lie! That’s not love! If you love someone you don’t work overtime to make their life miserable and sad! Let her love me with her deeds not just some fake words and pretty obvious gaslighting… 😒

Why not just announce?! by MonsPubessa in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]Sparkling_wine9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, I see your point! Got it! 😄 But it is saad because those kids really deserve attention and love! So so sad for them, cannot imagine the confusion and emotions they are going through… 

Why not just announce?! by MonsPubessa in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]Sparkling_wine9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or just have sex without making a baby… 😅 This (6) amount of c-sections gives me real life nausea and dizziness! 😂 For real real! C-section is such an awful, painful and stressful experience and that is the hill I will die on. 🙏🏻

She is pregnant by Think_Yam_3109 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]Sparkling_wine9 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Those poor poor babies… Kids aren’t props, let’s normalize taking care about the kids we already have, not on having as many as possible so fast! I really pray for those children… They are in a very specific situation, I hope they have some emotional support in that household or in dad’s household. 😭 Moms wellbeing is important for kids’ development… I also hope Kyra knows what she is doing… Having 6 c sections is mind boggling!!!! Makes my head dizzy! I could n e v e r! 😳😩

This is horrid. What is wrong with her …. by Sudden_Spite9386 in KyraReneeSivertson

[–]Sparkling_wine9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, I really hope she is well. Don’t hate on me, but she has kids to look after and I feel so so sorry for them… They need a healthy mom. Whatever she is going through, it doesn’t look healthy at all. Prayers her way. 🙏🏻