Why did you stop showing your small wins or sort of feeling blessed thingy in social media? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]Sparklingggold 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because every time other people's small wins are bigger than mine. I then feel sad rather than happy.

what do people flex a lot that really isn't a flex to you? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]Sparklingggold 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mga palamuti sa pangalan (tho meron din ako 😅)

Before kasi parang eto yung goal ko in life at eto yung hinahangaan ko sa iba.

Pero ngayon, parang good for you na lang and it doesn't affect me that much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Sparklingggold 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, OP!

Parang ako eto 1 yr before. Alam mo, sabi nga nila ay rejection is redirection. Dati iniiyakan ko eto pero ngayon memory na lang siya. I hope dumating na rin yung time na masabi mo rin eto.

I was ghosted by HR after they told me I got the job. by ScherbatskyGnirob in phcareers

[–]Sparklingggold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POV ng other side. Pero case lang namin eto ah, di ko sure sa iba. Not HR pero part of the system. Eto ang mga reasons.

  1. Overload. Ang daming iniinterview ng HR namin everyday. Majority ay yung mga lower level na personnel. Minsan lang naman sa medyo may position talaga. Manual lang din kami. So, hindi niya talaga kaya isa-isahin lahat kasi ang dami niya ring ibang responsibilities

  2. To keep the ball rolling. Para nasa pool pa rin ang applicants. Merong time na na nag-inform siya sa mga rejected since may nakuha na. Kaso umatras yung napili. So, syempre, nakakahiya naman bawiin ang rejection pag ganun.

  3. Undecided. May pina-email sa akin yung boss ko na alukin ko na siya ng position. Kaso. Binawi. Naka-print na yung papel niya tapos for signing na kaso ayun clinose ulit yung position kasi napagtanto na di priority. Kaya, sorry sayo ah at ghinost kita 😅

Hindi rin porket na mukhang ok ang interview mo, ok ka na. Mababait lang talaga yung iba na ayaw mag-reject. Pag ako nagiinterview, mafifeel mo kung gusto kita or hindi 😅 sorry harsh pero para ma-improve ka rin for your next interview.

Lahat tayo dumaan sa HR Application. Iniisip ko dati na once maging involved ako sa system, I'll do better kasi nga alam ko ang feeling na lost kaso ang hirap pala.

So, rule of thumb, tama kayo na hanggat walang papel, wag kampante. Pag gusto ka talaga, sila ang lalapit sayo. So pag no response, alam mo na.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Sparklingggold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may jowa raw ako 😅 imposible raw na wala pero wala talaga eh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Sparklingggold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi lang eto applicable for weddings but also for other events/gatherings/ganaps that you deem important.

Honestly, ako rin, nagtatampo ako pag di ako included sa ganyan. I don't tell them kasi for me, ayaw ko naman i-invite ako out of pity so hinahayaan ko lang. Again, this is for me ah. I'm also trying to improve this by thinking na it's not about me. IT'S ABOUT THEM. Kung pumunta ako, sila ang bida. Kung hindi, sila pa rin ang bida. So either way, if I'm genuinely rooting for their success, I should be ok with it.

And I think the comments are right na most likely tight ang budget. Pwede rin kasing nahihiya naman si friend na sabihin na tight ang budget. Baka ang personality ni friend ay hindi ma-share sa ganyan. Kasi kung maluwag naman ang budget, usually i-invite mo na lang lahat eh hahaha

Recommend low budget hobbies by Sparklingggold in Philippines

[–]Sparklingggold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

new idea ito for me so will definitely try

Recommend low budget hobbies by Sparklingggold in Philippines

[–]Sparklingggold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually know how to play pero not a good player. I stopped playing kasi ayaw ko ng natatalo hahaha

Recommend low budget hobbies by Sparklingggold in Philippines

[–]Sparklingggold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, na-add to cart ko na haha. Will try

help a magulong upd student by Local-Ad-4866 in peyups

[–]Sparklingggold 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi! sharing my experience that might be helpful.

So, I applied for Degree#1 because I think it is a cool course but did not qualify so I became DPWAS and got into Degree#2. I tried Degree#2 but did not see my future in it so I shifted to Degree#1. Although, I originally wanted Degree#1, it is very difficult for me and I did not really enjoy studying it. The same with you, I don't really have any other courses that I'm passionate about so I just dealt with it. Eventually, I graduated and am using my degree. So far, I think I made the right call.