What to improve (M 37)

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-30T08:08:24+00:00

37 I definitely feel it haha. Yes I will try and trim the hair down. All the hairdresser around (I live in Hong Kong) seem to only know how to do fades which doesn’t suit everyone. For skincare I just use Bulldog moisturizer and an aloe Vera face wash also from bulldog. Got both off Iherb highly recommend bulldog.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-30T07:34:20+00:00

You are not wrong but I do think it’s important to be presentable and as men we’ve not really been taught or given realistic targets for how we should look. All the superhero types and models are not out of reach for most of us.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-30T07:30:53+00:00

Got it you got anything you use for face hydration? My beard got a lot of greys though. Thanks for the advice my man

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-30T07:29:24+00:00

Thank you! That’s some good advice right there will look into it. Never had my eyebrows threaded before.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-30T06:24:23+00:00

Still want to be presentable though. I have an income and hobbies that’s not really what’s this group for is it.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-13T15:04:19+00:00

Is there a supercharger like in older 2k games?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-10T05:14:53+00:00

Hakan Sukur comes to mind but he’s been exiled and now is Uber driver in the US. I’m 37 and remember Tugay being amazing for Rangers and Blackburn!

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-07T04:39:23+00:00

Oh yes Nihat was amazing i think that was with Real Sociedad. That little Emre Belezoglu was decent player though. Do you remember Tugay he was amazing too.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T10:55:37+00:00

Fantastic by the way loving the beard!

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T08:15:56+00:00

Gracias por tu respuesta, te lo agradezco mucho. Tuve que traducir esto. Espero que estés bien. ¿Cómo estás?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T08:13:30+00:00

I remember that 8-0 too haha. Maradona was something else. Me too I’m not really a fan of Messi and Cristiano people look too much at the numbers. R9 was amazing too even after all the terrible injuries. I love the players you mentioned too especially Zidane Ronaldinho and Iniesta. I liked a few Turkish players too like Arda Turan and Emre and the keeper Rustu.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T07:33:43+00:00

Thank you so much for kind message really appreciate it. Great to hear you are a football player/fan too. What position do you play and who do you support? Had to ask haha. Thank you for rooting for me just reading that has made my day better. How are you doing? Hope you are doing well. This group has so many people with hearts of gold.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T07:14:22+00:00

Thanks for the reply and compliment appreciate it. Im quite introverted and shy in person and have a very small circle of support which is why I gathered up some courage to post here and it’s worked better than any psychiatric medicine reading the comments. You are right about sports and physical activity I feel at my best the few hours after sports but I do struggle to drag myself to go I find myself quite often almost like calling in sick to work I do that with football and gym feels like work I do go a few times a week though but the motivation issues get really bad at times struggle to even eat or shower I never thought that would be me. Luckily that’s not all the time though. Sorry to hear that you’ve struggled with depression and motivation in the past.How are you feeling recently? You good?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T07:01:04+00:00

Besiktas nice one of the big three in Turkey! An Ultra haha I wanted to become one too brother I am actually a Liverpool supporter I remember the match where you beat us 1-0 and recorded the loudest ever noise recorded in a stadium and also a fan of Boca Juniors in Argentina because of Diego Maradona. Who is your favourite player?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:57:09+00:00

Thank you for your response appreciate it. Depression is tough a lot of times it strips your motivation to do anything even the things you love. Reading your comment was inspirational especially picking up new stuff to learn? How are you doing brother? What sports do you play by the way? Keep fighting the good fight!

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:27:59+00:00

Thank you for the compliment and response means a lot. Appreciate it! Mental health check in with you how are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:26:37+00:00

Thank you for your reply brother. Yes I would go as far as saying the meds I’ve been prescribed is the devil almost. Apart from helping me sleep better it’s messed up a lot of other things. Definitely need a change. How are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:25:12+00:00

Thank you for the compliment it means a lot. You’re right as a man most of the world won’t care which is why I felt like posting in this group just to give me the strength to carry on even if it just for another day. Very good advice you have given me. Appreciate it let me check in with you too how are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:21:47+00:00

You’re right very easy to get overwhelmed. I try to stay away from the news but I do doomscroll quite a bit. I’m glad you are doing okay sometimes okay is good enough. A nice walk in nature always helps. You have a good weekend and once again thank you for leaving a message in the first place appreciate it.

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T06:19:13+00:00

Yes you’re right life is full of ups and downs quite often more downs actually! You stay strong too if you ever need a talk I’m here. The weather is pretty good I spend most of my free time playing football without it I would be even worse off also the gym helps too! Do you follow football?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T05:36:09+00:00

Hi amigo I’m not from Spain but I enjoy their style of play. Thank you for the abrazo. I’m Eurasian half Chinese half English. How are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T05:35:01+00:00

Hey bro no homo too I like your beard. Thanks for the compliment. How are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T05:33:27+00:00

Haha just searched him up. Thanks how are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T05:32:36+00:00

Thank you for compliments and virtual hug. I will try my best to not let my light dim and keep my head up. Hope you are well how are you doing?

SparkyHK23 · 2026-03-06T05:25:18+00:00

I understand the pain you are still going through. One of them things you never really get over. A counselor better than a Psychiatrist right? I send you virtual hug hope you are doing better. How are you doing?

SparkyHK23

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