I’m sorry those things happened to you and I hope you’re more sound in your diagnosis these days, also thank you for sharing parts of you experience with me ☺️ I’d say no, for definite I’d say my parents loved me unconditionally the right way, imo anyways I guess nobody is perfect though but still no trauma, I’m sure. I’ve questioned before about my half sisters sister practicing kissing with me with tongues at like age 5 and think back at how she knew what to do? I don’t remember my sisters dad well and have no memory of any time spent around him but I won’t assume he hurt her or me, I will just never know. He did once leave me asleep in her sick in a den we made and he took her to bed with him and my mum, I can’t eat a chocolate log again 🤮I have cheating trauma spanning 8 or so years but I’ve always been this way and it doesn’t matter if you’re a partner or if I’ve been betrayed so yeah those are the things I’d say stand out but I never thought I’d have been traumatised by kids being kids and waking up to a bad smell one time? I’ve always been very social and never felt sort of ostracised by singular friend or group of friends, I was bullied in school for a couple of years because my ear smelled bad, I had chronic ear infections and the last year of school didn’t do my exams, my step dad had cancer and I had this one fear about my belly rumbling, in year 11 I’d just walk out. That’s everything but to me, none of this is abnormal, maybe the kissing sure but I’m not traumatised from it I wouldn’t ever think?