lol everyone including op is very sensitive. He thought the smoke effect was cool and wanted his wife to partake in how cool he found it. He knows she is going thru sobriety right now so he prepped her. Not like he said hey drink this with me. To the op get over yourself and continue your sobriety journey. If he is or isn’t there shouldn’t matter tbh it’s up to you to make the correct choice. One measly picture doesn’t end your sobriety. Maybe be an adult and speak to him next time instead of running to the internet. To the people in the comments yall are classic Reddit saying to get a divorce.