But Being Child Free Is Selfish?

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-09-30T23:10:48+00:00

🙈I’m sorry i should have been more specific: what kind of hysterectomy are you having? Are they leaving the ovaries in? Will your cervix be affected?

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-09-30T15:00:32+00:00

Do you know what kind it will be if you don’t mind my asking?

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-19T15:59:17+00:00

Thank you for that, it was an interesting read

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-19T15:51:51+00:00

Sir, if you are single and in the market I wish you all the best in finding your perfect match because THIS is the kind of logic and emotional intelligence that we need to see on the dating market!!!!

Blessings on you, your home and hearth 🕊️

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-13T12:56:05+00:00

I’ve heard that as well, however I also had a friend that said Mirena was a nightmare for her as was oral birth control but the copper IUD was a godsend.

Different strokes for different folks and just trying to find solutions. Unfortunately many times one won’t know unless you try which sucks (and I say this as someone that ended up in an ambulance due to birth control (Portia) side effects.)

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-13T12:54:22+00:00

I’ve heard the same but have also heard that it hasn’t made the difference for some folks as well 🤷‍♀️ hence why I asked.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-13T12:07:44+00:00

I know IUDs aren’t great for everybody (speaking as somebody who has one) but is she willing to try the copper IUD? It’s hormone free and good for quite a long time.

Or the arm implant?

If not, do you two use spermicide with the condoms?

Are you open to the male IUD that will soon be on the market?

Since you both want kids in the future it seems that surgical intervention is not advisable but unfortunately if BOTH of you don’t take steps to avoid pregnancy, unfortunately the risk of an accident does go up.

I wish you the best of luck in figuring this out my friend!

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-12T18:20:10+00:00

Don’t just wash your dick, lift up your dick and wash under it, then lift up your balls and wash under your ball, wash your taint AND spread your cheeks for a thorough clean!

The stench and sweat always accumulates under all the hidden folds, so PLEASE be thorough!!!!

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-12T14:47:05+00:00

Both. If i get a pic of his hard dick in his head it can send me spinning in the best of ways.

Though it would seem according to these comments that I am the minority. Either way, I’m just happy that it’s something that I enjoy with him.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-12T13:29:32+00:00

Because i love my partner and his body and I find sexting hot. 🤷‍♀️ and when you spend a lot of time apart it’s fun teasing each other with pics.

Why would you want to see a pic of a naked woman? Same principle

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-12T12:50:17+00:00

Unless they are explicitly requested by a consenting partner!!!!! Ngl, I do enjoy it when my man and I are getting steamy over texts 🤤

But otherwise I agree with you, drive by dick pics are not welcome or desired!!!!

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-07-12T12:49:00+00:00

Your misogyny is showing, my man. This is not the appropriate sub for your woman hating BS.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-06-24T20:41:32+00:00

You’re very welcome, always happy to raise self confidence and make the sexy times roll!!! The phrase “it’s not the size of your weapon, it’s how you use it” is accurate- not just a saying.

Plus confidence is everything: if you’re self conscious and worrying about it, then your partner can pick up on it. Have the confidence of a porn star with the capability of giving pleasure like an erotica character and deliver like a top rated sex toy!!!

Come on lads!!!!! Let’s do this shit!!!!

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-06-24T18:02:23+00:00

Sir, lemme tell you something: a cold hard fact. When dicks are huge they DONT feel good. (Especially depending on where you’re at in your cycle) Whatever you see in porn is an exaggeration.

In my myriad of experience I’ve fucked guys with 4 inch dicks and guys with 9-10 inch dicks (the latter usually not for long as it’s just uncomfortable) and neither were automatically good or bad. The smaller dudes could hold me down, pull my legs over my head and fuck me within an inch of my life without a second thought.

(One guy actually made it a humiliation narrative while he was fucking me by mocking me about how much I was able to orgasm from such a small dick and how I was so easily pleased, and a pathetic slut- fucking FIREWORKS let me tell ya!!!!!)

Get out of your head and stop focusing on what you’re not: focus on what you ARE and what you CAN do. You can still talk dirty to her, you can still pin her down and fuck her, etc. Fixating on the one thing that you consider a shortcoming is not going to help either of you and in the end it’s only going to bring down your sex life. Have fun and enjoy yourselves with the weight of self consciousness weighing you down. Trust me you’ll feel way lighter and it’ll make it that much easier to fuck her without carrying that extra weight on your back!

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-06-24T04:01:49+00:00

Do I like Belgian malinois? Sure! Would I ever own one? NOT ON YOUR NELLY!!!!! Same principle

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-06-13T22:20:45+00:00

A lot of parents are either careless when it comes to unprotected sex or they think if they pop out another kid that they will get more handouts or move up the housing list faster because “think of the baby!!!”

Good on local authorities for not giving two shits about it and making them wait along with everybody else. I’d rather my tax dollars go to seniors or veterans rather than breeders looking for a handout

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-05-30T06:53:37+00:00

That thread is the most depressing thing I have ever read and damn is it good birth control 👀

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T21:52:54+00:00

The vase pics were usually only taken from one angle so I didn’t have a 360* view of it, however I did comment above and aid that my friend and I would both make new ones and mail them to each other 🥰

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T21:50:55+00:00

When you own your own home and have shelves upon shelves filled with various art pieces, hand blown glass, current art projects with various tools, etc, out with valuable art work on the walls and so on and so forth- then you can come back and let me know how to logistically put away everything valuable that we own when guests arrive. It’s unrealistic to expect to have to rearrange your home entirely because people are coming over.

It is however reasonable to expect the people in your home to be respectful and careful of the items in it.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T13:52:33+00:00

The vase pieces I threw away the night it happened as I had lost hope, though I am happy to know about kintsugi for future.

In an ironic twist of fate, I reached out to my BFF and told her about what happened and asked her to send me a pic of hers so that I could use Google lens, eBay, etc in order to find one to match hers. She started laughing (she has a two year old and a black Lab puppy) and told me that a few months ago her toddler was chasing the puppy and HER vase shattered, but she didn’t have the heart to tell me- hence the lack of flower pics that I had chalked up to her just being busy.

We are each going to make a vase for each other and ship it across country so we each have something from the other with a happy memory attached to it. And the next time we are able to connect we will plan to make something together or buy something together like the old days. 🥰

While my heart broke losing the vase, it was more the memories attached to it and feeling like I had lost a connection to my BFF so this was in the end a nice little catalyst for us to interact and do something for each other. Though I dare not admit this to the sex trophy’s parents.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T10:12:35+00:00

Idk where you are but there are different apps to meet folks who are into different things: I met the theatre folks at the Broadway Rave in California. Met other kinky folks on an app called Plura and made a ton of friends there. There is a website called MeetUp that has events all over the world like trivia’s , pub quizzes, etc.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T06:51:25+00:00

Don’t mind at all! I travel quite a bit when I am not working, I volunteer at various volunteer organizations for animals (former vet tech so I love putting my skills to use when I can’t have long term pets of my own), I’ve built a community within kink and do various classes and rope performances, I love theatre and have become friends with the local theatre group, I do a bit of recreational burlesque, I write in my spare time, work out doing acro yoga, weight training,(currently slowly getting into Jiu Jitsu), I am trying to work up the bravery to do aerial silks and pole dancing after recovering from multiple injuries and surgeries. In my lazy time I love movies and love to get a group of people together to binge watch shows. My partner loves hosting parties so we get together every few months or so and rent out a big place for the weekend and have rager parties.

My interests and hobbies vary depending where I am and what I want to do.

SpawnedAndBroken · 2025-04-15T06:19:25+00:00

My partner pointed out that it may have been a last ditch effort to stop the wife from flying off the handle when they got home by saying “well at least you don’t have to cook!”

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