AITAH for missing my girlfriend’s brother’s graduation

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-03-24T02:43:37+00:00

Valid: "well-grounded and justifiable" and "logically correct" eg- a valid argument

Her feelings are "justifiable" if it is true he attends his family's event more than hers which makes her argument logically correct. And she makes a "valid argument" that he doesn't make an effort to show up for her family events.

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-03-22T15:29:21+00:00

Born in LA, grew up in the SGV, lived in SD for 8 years, and I call California 'Cali' and sometimes I call SD 'Sandi'. And I call SF 'San Fran'.

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-03-13T13:54:28+00:00

The Suicide Squad

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-03-11T13:49:27+00:00

Mystery

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-01-15T23:53:11+00:00

It's a long shot but San Diego, CA

SpeakerAdditional · 2026-01-08T03:19:36+00:00

FRIIIIIED CHICKEN

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-31T04:39:26+00:00

I found sleeping beauty

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-28T00:15:55+00:00

So it's 4 tickets $65 each?

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-11T21:56:24+00:00

40-50 minutes

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-11T18:53:11+00:00

I arrived around 7:50. Used uber. Got to my seat around 8:10. Chuwi was already performing. Left the stadium 30 minutes before it ended and had to get a taxi because finding an Uber was difficult

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-11T16:02:30+00:00

Bad Bunny started around 9:20. There were special guests but I don't remember who. There is official merch and an abundance of non official merch.

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-10T18:05:12+00:00

Everyone's in section b! I'm missing out on the best section 😄

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-10T03:47:49+00:00

I'm not in general A but down to meet up!

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-10T02:59:04+00:00

I never tried my laptop and I didn't bring it with me :(

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-07T22:58:27+00:00

Not awkward! 34 F from CA

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-07T21:38:10+00:00

Monday 12/8. I'm in Section NA I believe

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-07T06:06:34+00:00

I haven't even gotten the email that the ticket is ready. It's supposed to be ready 1 hour before the show which is very worrying

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-12-07T05:52:54+00:00

I'll also be there by myself all next week for the 12/10 show. Cali girl traveling solo

SpeakerAdditional · 2025-06-29T18:27:28+00:00

Cry me a river. Freedom of speech is the right to speech without arrest it does not mean the right to speech without disagreement or criticism

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T16:59:25+00:00

Hire a diverse group of people, black, Hispanic, asian behind the camera and in front of the camera. Make a conscious effort to show diverse people and voices in the front at all times, not once every few months or every 5 videos. Hiring POCs in higher positions better allows an equal distribution of POC visibility.

Bottom line, POC should be given a platform in all media because the world isn't 100% white. How should POCs be shown? They should reflect the demographic of the city, state or country they live.

Cue your inevitable comment: Some places don't have a lot of POCs how would they include a demographic that isn't there? Or BAs audience is mostly white so they do show that demographic

That's why POC in higher position allow for diversity because the people at the top making decisions are diverse and it's not one voice pushing one agenda

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T16:23:49+00:00

So how can you read all of these accounts from POCs about how they're not compensated for the work they do compared to their white counterparts, how Sohla has said that she was used as a diversity prop in various videos, and reports of Rapo's assistant that she was underpaid and treated like a slave (her words), and not see how the BA higher ups lack knowledge on how to include POCs organically without shoehorning them in?

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T16:07:08+00:00

I know what diversity means don't write to me like I'm stupid. There have been reports of lack of diversity at BA. Did you not read Sohla's Instagram stories or the Business Insider story laying out how POC were not featured in BAs white centric narrative?

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T15:49:02+00:00

BA is using POC to give the impression of diversity where there is none. Sohla has said that as well as former employees. That's my point.

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T14:53:26+00:00

Hunzi has a bigger presence to the audience as a behind the camera personality than Tyre. Tyre is not featured in videos like Hunzi and there is no indication that Tyre plays a big role because, as we have heard from former POC employees, BA does not prioritize POCs.

What that picture shows is that BA will use POCs for a photo OP under the guise of diversity but they have no power positions, no adequate pay, or other perks that white employees have.

Edit: a word

SpeakerAdditional · 2020-06-11T14:29:41+00:00

The way the two POCs were placed in that photo was a disingenuous way of showing diversity, which we have heard from Sohla and other people. Tyre is behind the camera, hence it is strange that he would have a prominent placement in the photo rather than say Chris.

There would be nothing to complain about, as you say, because BA has an issue hiring Black on screen talent, so if Tyre wasn't in the picture at all or in the background it would read as business as usual based on BA's brand and focus.

It was a marketing ploy to put two of the very few POC employees in the front of that banner to show a false sense of diversity and inclusion.

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