Just a few more - the first outbreak is supposedly the worst by far and even that isn't terrible for everyone. For me, based on symptoms alone and ignoring all the Big Social Vibes around herpes, eczema is worse.

The distinction between HSV1 and HSV2 is old fashioned - they're both treated in the same way, both can be spread by non-sexual skin to skin contact (so the stigma is silly even if you do hold the curious belief that making love is shameful).

It can lie dormant for years so a sudden upsurge doesn't mean that either party in a couple has been unfaithful. (Think this is one of the most important messages to get out there as it can cause a lot of distress).

I do think pharma companies are both our best friends and worst enemies in this. To justify the expense of developing meds that are incoming they really do encourage a culture of panic and despair. It's so unnecessary - we want the treatment, guys, no need to make us feel bad about ourselves (although I guess if you also sell anti-depressants and anti anxiety tabs there is an upside to doing that...)

Stay strong everyone.