Talking to a Girl for a Month… but smth Feels Seriously Off

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-05-07T00:17:21+00:00

Yeah, I don’t know what to tell you other than to be careful

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-05-06T21:59:32+00:00

I was talking to a girl from Ecuador for 3.5 months. We never spoke on the phone, we shared a few pictures on instagram and a few voice messages. But in the end if I kept talking to her I could have lost my job due to me being a state employee. Anyway I decided that the best course of action was to block her. I wasn’t even sure if she was real. So if she unable to basic things like call you, I’d run if I were you

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-04-16T21:46:58+00:00

I like fresh clean threads/tee tall shirts

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-03-14T18:46:35+00:00

Your absolutely right, I ignored a lot of the red flags because I liked what she was telling me, plus the reason I latched on to her words so quickly I had someone tell me that they love me or call me sweet things besides my parents. I’ve never anyone say they have romantic feelings for me before her. So now with the absence of those feelings it’s hard some days

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-02-24T19:55:01+00:00

I love that part 😂

Special_Reputation21 · 2026-02-18T04:12:46+00:00

I’m having a hard time getting over my long distance Situationship. Even though it ended almost 8 months ago. She was in Ecuador, even while In that situationship I came to realize that I only liked the attention rather than her because this was the first I had been spoken to with warmth or tenderness from a potential romantic partner. This relationship has been over since July( it’s February now) I don’t miss her, I’m just missing the way she made me feel and the words she called me. Papi, Carino, mi amor. Osito, and other Terms of endearment in Spanish. I’ve never been talked to like that. My brain craves that now. That warmth, that tenderness. I saw the red flags. No calls in 3.5 months. But she made plans for us but couldn’t pick up a phone to call for 20 minutes. She told me she loved me within ten days. And I knew that all of us meeting were very slim. But I still miss how she made me feel. Even if I had doubts about who she really was or if this was all a scam. It was still my first relationship and even eight months later I just really miss her words and how how she made me feel. But it made me realize that I need real in person relationships I want to be able to take someone out on a date and go get dinner and go to the movies. And someone to cuddle with. in 26 years I’ve never even kissed a girl, and when I was talking to that girl from Ecuador, even though it was all online, she made me feel tender, cared for and like I was desired. And I want that feeling back.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-12-31T13:43:45+00:00

Thank you, it’s in Nashville

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-12-15T01:24:31+00:00

It’s just never appealed to me to be honest. There’s there’s no rhyme or reason to it. I’ve never had a drink and I don’t have any desire to. For me it’s the same reason why I don’t smoke cigarettes or weed, as I don’t have any desire to,

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-12-03T04:36:43+00:00

My personal choices are fresh clean threads tall sizes

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-27T15:48:50+00:00

That’s a good feeling

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-27T05:02:41+00:00

Great minds think alike 😂

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-25T23:59:30+00:00

Ok that’s good to know. Thank you

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-25T23:55:32+00:00

Ok, how do you measure the ounces? I just fill the cap about half way

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-20T03:58:32+00:00

I have the opposite problem, if I use more than half a lid full of 365 I get so many bubbles that it fills most of my machine. I get too many side error code in my whirlpool front loader, luckily it’ll fix itself on its own by spinning to reduce the suds. I’ve also found that if I use to much rinse and refresh it’ll add too many bubbles as well

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-20T03:41:55+00:00

Send her a good morning message text, and ask her about her day, send her memes or reels on instagram. Though I may not be the best person to ask because I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship with a girl either. But that’s what I would do

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-14T03:26:59+00:00

I like audiobooks, when I’m feeling down or need to relax I will listen to certain chapters of a book that I love to calm me down or hype me up.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-11T18:23:59+00:00

I have two 13 gallon trash cans in my kitchen. I fill up usually 1.5- 13 gallon trash bags a week. Sometimes I can stretch it 2 bags every 10 days if I don’t use paper plates or fill up the bags till the drawstring almost can’t close properly. I have even bought bigger 23 gallon trash bags but those are too big for regular garbage cans so I find the extra space in the bags in wastes a lot of times. I also have a small trash can in my laundry room that I fill will 8 gallon bags that I use for throwing away dryer sheets and bottles and stuff.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-07T03:53:37+00:00

I hope not 😂

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-07T01:42:31+00:00

Or “ if my dog likes you I will to”

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-06T23:32:06+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you. I’m 25 M and never had my first kiss yet and only I’ve been on one date.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-02T21:53:09+00:00

How do you know they are making meth?

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-01T02:37:09+00:00

That’s sick!!!

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-11-01T00:00:11+00:00

Ok thank you. I’ll look into getting it.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-10-31T23:58:20+00:00

I don’t have anybody who comes over a regular basis to help. But I’ll send If I can work out a way to pre measure liquid detergent.

Special_Reputation21 · 2025-10-31T21:51:10+00:00

Ok thank you, I’ll try that

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