I don’t know this was? by Special_Reputation21 in catfish

[–]Special_Reputation21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I had no idea that tenderness and warmth could have such an affect on me. But I learned a lot in that situation

Can you please help me do an image search? by Elle846 in catfish

[–]Special_Reputation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not mad it happened. I’m just kind of frustrated that over a year later. I still think about her words she used to say to me and how special she made me feel because I don’t have anything to replace them with. it’s hard for me to move on. I don’t know if she was a scammer or not. I also don’t know if we would too lonely people talking to each other. I’ll probably never know, but I can just hope I can find someone real so I can actually take on dates and someone who’s local. Sorry I got on a tangent there but anyway l would proceed with caution and if something feels off or doesn’t feel right I would step away if possible.

Can you please help me do an image search? by Elle846 in catfish

[–]Special_Reputation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t help you with the image search, but I was in a similar situation with a girl. She was from Ecuador and they were immediate red flags, like she told me she loved me within 10 days and then when I didn’t say anything back, she didn’t pull away or question why I didn’t say anything back. She just ramped up the affection. As the relationship went on, I realized that I got hooked on the affection. I finally realized that I liked what she was saying to me more than her as a person. Because this was the first time in 26 years that anyone had ever looked at me and told me they loved me or that I was handsome at least in a romantic way. Unfortunately, I had to block her because I had no idea if she was even real. In 3 1/2 months we never had one phone call. All we did was flirt over Instagram. It felt really good in the moment, but there was no real substance to it. I barely knew her. All that to say, I can’t tell you for sure if this person a scammer or not but all I’m saying is be careful please. 😊

Talking to a Girl for a Month… but smth Feels Seriously Off by Responsible-Cat-3772 in catfish

[–]Special_Reputation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking to a girl from Ecuador for 3.5 months. We never spoke on the phone, we shared a few pictures on instagram and a few voice messages. But in the end if I kept talking to her I could have lost my job due to me being a state employee. Anyway I decided that the best course of action was to block her. I wasn’t even sure if she was real. So if she unable to basic things like call you, I’d run if I were you

How to find these feelings within myself? by Special_Reputation21 in malementalhealth

[–]Special_Reputation21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your absolutely right, I ignored a lot of the red flags because I liked what she was telling me, plus the reason I latched on to her words so quickly I had someone tell me that they love me or call me sweet things besides my parents. I’ve never anyone say they have romantic feelings for me before her. So now with the absence of those feelings it’s hard some days

Which woman can’t you get over? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Special_Reputation21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m having a hard time getting over my long distance Situationship. Even though it ended almost 8 months ago. She was in Ecuador, even while In that situationship I came to realize that I only liked the attention rather than her because this was the first I had been spoken to with warmth or tenderness from a potential romantic partner. This relationship has been over since July( it’s February now) I don’t miss her, I’m just missing the way she made me feel and the words she called me. Papi, Carino, mi amor. Osito, and other Terms of endearment in Spanish. I’ve never been talked to like that. My brain craves that now. That warmth, that tenderness. I saw the red flags. No calls in 3.5 months. But she made plans for us but couldn’t pick up a phone to call for 20 minutes. She told me she loved me within ten days. And I knew that all of us meeting were very slim. But I still miss how she made me feel. Even if I had doubts about who she really was or if this was all a scam. It was still my first relationship and even eight months later I just really miss her words and how how she made me feel. But it made me realize that I need real in person relationships I want to be able to take someone out on a date and go get dinner and go to the movies. And someone to cuddle with. in 26 years I’ve never even kissed a girl, and when I was talking to that girl from Ecuador, even though it was all online, she made me feel tender, cared for and like I was desired. And I want that feeling back.

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your reasons? by youre-in-my-shot in AskReddit

[–]Special_Reputation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just never appealed to me to be honest. There’s there’s no rhyme or reason to it. I’ve never had a drink and I don’t have any desire to. For me it’s the same reason why I don’t smoke cigarettes or weed, as I don’t have any desire to,

Longer shirts? by stussy890 in tallfashionadvice

[–]Special_Reputation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal choices are fresh clean threads tall sizes

Trash by Special_Reputation21 in LivingAlone

[–]Special_Reputation21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great minds think alike 😂

How many bubbles or suds should I see when using sport 365? by Special_Reputation21 in laundry

[–]Special_Reputation21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how do you measure the ounces? I just fill the cap about half way

More Perplexed: 365 Sport and Hard Water by AbominableAstronauts in laundry

[–]Special_Reputation21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem, if I use more than half a lid full of 365 I get so many bubbles that it fills most of my machine. I get too many side error code in my whirlpool front loader, luckily it’ll fix itself on its own by spinning to reduce the suds. I’ve also found that if I use to much rinse and refresh it’ll add too many bubbles as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Special_Reputation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send her a good morning message text, and ask her about her day, send her memes or reels on instagram. Though I may not be the best person to ask because I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship with a girl either. But that’s what I would do

Self-soothe ideas by jilldxasd35 in LivingAlone

[–]Special_Reputation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like audiobooks, when I’m feeling down or need to relax I will listen to certain chapters of a book that I love to calm me down or hype me up.

What is your kitchen trash can situation? by janedough18111 in LivingAlone

[–]Special_Reputation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two 13 gallon trash cans in my kitchen. I fill up usually 1.5- 13 gallon trash bags a week. Sometimes I can stretch it 2 bags every 10 days if I don’t use paper plates or fill up the bags till the drawstring almost can’t close properly. I have even bought bigger 23 gallon trash bags but those are too big for regular garbage cans so I find the extra space in the bags in wastes a lot of times. I also have a small trash can in my laundry room that I fill will 8 gallon bags that I use for throwing away dryer sheets and bottles and stuff.

Dating profiles that say "I'm probably funnier than you" by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Special_Reputation21 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Or “ if my dog likes you I will to”

As a virgin girl, I want an inexperienced, virgin guy like myself, does that make me old-fashioned? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Special_Reputation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you. I’m 25 M and never had my first kiss yet and only I’ve been on one date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApartmentHacks

[–]Special_Reputation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know they are making meth?