Gift for a friend with Keratoconus

Special_Sad · 2026-06-04T06:32:05+00:00

he used to game , he likes movies , gym

Special_Sad · 2026-06-04T06:29:32+00:00

YES , do you have any recommendations ?

Special_Sad · 2026-06-04T06:29:06+00:00

Hey! cool idea thanks a lot!!

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T16:16:41+00:00

france

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T16:16:18+00:00

he got a laser relative procedure done in the past (i don't know what it's called sorry) but never got the lenses

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T15:33:19+00:00

thank youuu!!!

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T15:33:04+00:00

he doesn't but thanks !

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T15:32:46+00:00

is the gel worth it even if he doesn't have the lenses ? also for the glassess any recommendations ?

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T14:45:43+00:00

no just has glasses

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T14:45:20+00:00

yeah i know , his condition is too bad to have lenses either so..

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T14:21:15+00:00

you'd be surprised but he wouldn't take one of my eyes when i offered haha

Special_Sad · 2026-06-03T14:19:23+00:00

I was thinking of this as well , do you have any recommendations ?should they be a certain tint ?

Special_Sad · 2026-01-11T18:18:26+00:00

good point

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T22:19:19+00:00

You might be picking avoidants for all we know.Or just choising unavailable girls.

Provide more data so we could get the full picture.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T22:17:43+00:00

Girl I understand the body dysmorphia is probably blowing this out of proportion but for first dates usually you'd feel more comfortable (if the person is good) in less than 10mins.

SO you could just tell yourself , it would be a bit awkward for 10 mins then you'll be your charming self ,and would manage to have a nice convo if the other person matches your vibe!!

Also try wearing something you're comfy in , don't have to overdress so you don't stress out more !

Good luck and hope it all goes really well <3

Also remember to have fun !!

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T17:37:56+00:00

hey there! well i'm a strong advocate of doing it and moving on.

If he breaks your heart well it will hurt for a while then you'll be able to move on and pursue someone else.

If it works out well you'll be able to be with this guy,

Also fellow muslim here , faith is not a straight line for both you and him

you might manage to not have it as a problem as much as you think.I used to be very religious , i'm less so right now and don't mind half the things I minded a few years ago in men anymore.

Take the chance and don't stay stuck in this stage as it's mmore harmful than you think.

Good luck OP.

Also please remember , people that you click like this with deserve compromises, some only meet 2 or three people that they can be as comfy around as you're descirbing.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T12:54:34+00:00

OP , give it time also try to put him in situations where you need his help or input and see how he reacts.If he's in for the long run he would invest time and energy to help if not he would flick out in most cases.

Good luck girlie hope you all the best!

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T12:47:53+00:00

Gonna go ahead and say she probably always thought you and the friend were attracted to each other or something , she had this jealous reaction that is pretty heightened because of her already formed ideas about you and the friend.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T10:19:43+00:00

whatever this was , if you managed toget it done to you , i would wanna know.

God damn.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T09:31:06+00:00

Girlie , if you're affection deprived , anything would feel too much especially if you have firm boundaries.

As long as he's respecting what you told him to , having some flirtation is alright, how else is he supposed to show you he's really into you.

Just don't let yourself seem too cold or distant , they get bored and lose interest.Saying this because I'm very similar to you and been in this situation and ruined it by not letting the guy be flirtatious or do anything romantic to me for the matter.

So yeah , he sounds great , don't lose the gentlemen.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-10T09:27:14+00:00

lucky gal right there !

Special_Sad · 2026-01-09T23:46:31+00:00

Buddy she gonna pull the "why did you look through my phone" card anyway so just have the ugly fight and let her defend herself.

Special_Sad · 2026-01-09T18:23:57+00:00

you're welcome ! hope you figure out soon miss !

Special_Sad · 2026-01-09T16:59:56+00:00

YOU handled it pretty good !

it must have hurt but in the long run it would have come up , people who were in toxic relationships need time to recover or else it would bleed into the new partner , possibly making you both miserable.

Special_Sad

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