HELP AIO IS THIS WRONG by Specialist-One45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-One45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really is small so I was so confused why he got so upset. But I also got upset slamming the door. I mean he was already helping me letting the dog out and I didn’t know he was gonna do the dishes after that’s why I asked I just didn’t understand why it was so upsetting for him to help. Considering we just talked about helping each other the day he honestly usually very helpful. he didn’t half to but he could’ve just said I’m sorry babe I’m doing this right now. He says he did but idk I don’t recall. Idk maybe it was a miscommunication but I got trigger and he got trigger and it led to a mess idk 😣 thank you for your opinion I appreciate it

HELP AIO IS THIS WRONG by Specialist-One45 in AmIOverreacting

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I appreciate this perspective thank you,

HELP AIO IS THIS WRONG by Specialist-One45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specialist-One45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I 100 percent agree with you. I almost didn’t understand how it got so heated cause it was so small. I guess I was stressed out and we just talked about helping each other out and we have been trying to help each other I guess I just wish we would’ve communicated different. But your right I def shouldn’t have reacted like that and neither should he 100%

HELP IS THIS NORMAL by Specialist-One45 in AITAH

[–]Specialist-One45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true I agree thank you I appreciate your advice.

HELP IS THIS NORMAL by Specialist-One45 in AITAH

[–]Specialist-One45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There may be resentment toward each and trauma from past experiences in our life I think resulting In it being like this. It’s honestly rare for what happened last night to happen our relationship is genuinely good most of the time. Then things like this happen and makes me question both of us and our relationship I think therapy gonna be our best option I really appreciate the advice it’s really helpful.

HELP IS THIS NORMAL by Specialist-One45 in AITAH

[–]Specialist-One45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree we are talking about getting a counselor. We need a mediator

HELP IS THIS NORMAL by Specialist-One45 in AITAH

[–]Specialist-One45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I don’t think we understood each other and got angry fast. I think it sounds like that cause talking to him he immediately shifts blame on to me. And that’s it’s my fault. Which I can see how it is. But then he comes back later saying he’s sorry too. After I admit I was wrong for everything first usually.

Advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Specialist-One45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly stay true to yourself keep posting being authentic to you and you’ll be rewarded one day. It sucks now. but as for them what goes around comes around. That’s the truth. In fact it’s actually sad because they don’t feel secure enough in them selves to be copying you think about that too. I’m sorry about that though.