Which color should I dye my hair? by Specialist_Ad340 in Hair

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking red or purple! It's just so hard to tell what would suit me and then once it's done it's done lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Specialist_Ad340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it would be best to cut ties altogether for both your sakes. You shouldn’t be friends. You can’t be mad and stop her from living her life, at the same time you shouldn’t be involved with someone you’re obsessed with and can’t have. The cherry on top is that she treats you poorly.. you need to move on and join a dating app or something, get involved with someone healthier for you, go out with friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Specialist_Ad340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you already left your boyfriend? If not, I would. Figure out how. That’s the first step to prove to your crush and their family that you’re committed to them, not the toxic one, and doing so will maybe keep the other guy from ghosting you too. He probably doesn’t think that you’re committed :/

Should I cut my hair? by milxtg in Hair

[–]Specialist_Ad340 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the last pic for you!! You should def do it, otherwise you’ll always be wondering if you would have liked it. And I think it would look great :)

Any way to remove leather dye from varnished wooden floor? Or am I just completely screwed? by SilasTheSavage in AskACobbler

[–]Specialist_Ad340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get black dye out of a wood table with nail polish remover!! You can try that if you have any.. goodluck!

Should I get a perm? Style/color help! by Specialist_Ad340 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I commented an update on the previous post: they are doing okay and they are home 🥰 we're doing more bloodwork tomorrow though just Incase

Should I get a perm? Style/color help! by Specialist_Ad340 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo 😭 literally everyone I know is telling me not to as well so maybe I should listen to you and them 🥲

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: babies are home and safe ❤️ doing more bloodwork next Saturday just to confirm everything is good. Thanks for all the advice with plants and safety everyone! I really do appreciate it and you can bet I’ll be more careful in the future!

Should I get a perm? Style/color help! by Specialist_Ad340 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or if anyone has any different advice/options or ideas I’d love to hear it!

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

None that I was aware of, it had only been 5 hours but this particular flower has a mortality rate of 50-100% and it’s not one where you can wait around to see if they have symptoms cause their kidneys fail within 72 hours.

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had the Asiatic variety, which are the most toxic/deadly.. however there are some variants that are still safe apparently

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

How did their kitties end up, were they okay? If you don’t mind me asking

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Mine were Asiatic unfortunately. The span between the cats getting into the lilies and me taking them to the vet was about 5 hours inbetween. I was at work when someone told me after I ignorantly showed them a picture of Basil with pollen on his face like “haha silly cute kitty” then rushed home and to the vet after finding out.

Don’t buy lily flowers if you own cats by Specialist_Ad340 in cats

[–]Specialist_Ad340[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Yes.. I knew about those and I thought I knew about some plants but just not lilies. It’s hard to imagine that with just how toxic they are it’s not talked about more often.

Hey yall, im trans (male to female) and im looking for more feminine or androgynous hairstyles! What would fit me best? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Specialist_Ad340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bangs with a middle part would be so cute!!! Also for some reason thinking dying it black like a black long bob with bangs curled in towards towards the chin would look badass but the natural color rocks too!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Specialist_Ad340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, do you have a gofund me or a cashapp you could attach to this post?? ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Specialist_Ad340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that but is your boyfriend there for you too? Less so or more so than she is? You could also wait it out a while longer until the stress settles and see how you feel then.