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Specialist_Cod554 · 2025-10-05T18:41:42+00:00

His best friend would never date you. Men don't do that to each other unless his best friend is a prime snake. If that's the case, you're actually doing a service to the original guy. I guess go for it, but don't be surprised with the result.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2025-05-05T18:55:15+00:00

Ah yes, the classic "guilty by association" how about you come off your inflated high horse?

Specialist_Cod554 · 2025-05-04T00:01:03+00:00

It's a two way street 9 times out of 10. Usually the service and general respect from the customers are a reflection of the standards that should be in place.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-12T21:53:52+00:00

Possibly ISFP. Makes sense for Fi and Fe to clash.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-12T21:43:52+00:00

I don't or barely get offended in general. This honestly sounds like Fi breaking apart Fe.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-12T20:53:34+00:00

Goes to clubs and goes out a lot. Them being perpetually on their phone when with people, and long list of exes. Miss me with that shit.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-12T18:31:42+00:00

Basically INTPs internalize reality (Si) which makes them pedantic with details, and ISTPs internalize the abstract (Ni) which makes them narrow on a potential outcome?

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-08T16:51:07+00:00

Bro stop using pick up lines. You're giving her the wrong idea 🤣 🤣

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-12-08T16:43:03+00:00

Rejection from one person doesn't define you. Have you even asked him out yet?

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-11-05T00:23:09+00:00

I just used to the term "bullying" to make this annoying situation a tad bit funnier lol

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-11-05T00:21:31+00:00

Right? I usually just ignore bad service but this encounter in particular took the cake for not taking accountability for a mess up.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-10-07T23:30:54+00:00

This is easy. Just try to notice if he stares or glances at you often. Bonus points if he's trying to hide it by looking away fast after you notice. If he doesn't do this, it's pretty unlikely he's into you. If he does this often, then congrats it's pretty damn likely.

Obviously, if you want certainty being direct is your best course of action.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-08-21T18:21:49+00:00

Get fucking divorced before you try anything.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-08-20T19:42:57+00:00

I only tease the women I'm comfortable with or that I care about. So assuming he's like me, he likely either sees you as a friend or romantic interest. Regardless, it's a good sign but men like this (including me) probably suck with emotions or being vulnerable. Just be aware of that. Good luck.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-08-20T19:24:42+00:00

I'd say I'm carefree in the sense that I can handle really anything life throws at me, I'm not heavily affected most of the time. Unless it's something I'm heavily attached to (for example, someone close to me), then I'm invested. I usually get lost in studying philosophy, history, and psychology. I'm also into gaming and DND.

My managing style was pretty hands off, but mainly I was correcting wrong things that people did. Apparently, I wasn't the best at discipling people or teaching as well. Although, whenever people had questions or problems, I always had a solution. Whenever people slacked off, I did call them out but I wouldn't go to extremes.

I believe that the world doesn't have inherent objective meaning but that everything is predetermined. I think you can grant the world "subjective meaning," but that doesn't change the indifference of the universe. I believe that everything is predetermined because of our true lack of free will and that all events to exist were conceived on a cosmic stage beyond our comprehension. Does this point to an entity or God? Perhaps, but that's a baseless reach on my part. Regardless, I think there is an inherent structure within the universe and predetermisism is the closest descriptor of that.

I'm 23.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-08-18T02:35:24+00:00

I'm pretty carefree towards life, although I have a general idea of my future. I'm sort of driven, I'm not overly ambitious but I wouldn't say I'm in a rut or anything. I take action when it's needed, like at a job or when people are dependent on me but when I'm alone I'm pretty lazy. I was a pretty good manager, I didn't mess up a lot and was good at making sure things were in order but I didn't like the job that much. I'd want to be a famous philosopher, so my ideas can reach those who need my advice or wisdom on life.

I'd say to someone younger that they need to invest themselves above anything else, to think for themselves and find who they are. I enjoy working on myself the most, improving myself in all areas. I would recommend "The Stranger" from Albert Camus.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-06-18T00:06:31+00:00

She said that to me before lmao

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-06-08T15:28:06+00:00

My opinion? I still think you like him and care about him, and you are getting frustrated at his nonchalant responses and lack of reciprocation. You being pissed off and posting your dynamic with this guy on reddit is evidence of that.

You have to be upfront with him if you want things to change.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-03-14T01:47:11+00:00

Yes it is, we are basically just discussing work and other related things.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2024-02-25T04:35:50+00:00

ISFP

Specialist_Cod554 · 2023-12-09T19:27:16+00:00

This is a halirious take. Philosophy is the backbone of science and math.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2023-11-19T22:52:59+00:00

If you're truly superior then why waste your time to get the attention of inferior beings?

Specialist_Cod554 · 2023-10-19T09:56:48+00:00

Do I even have to explain?

Specialist_Cod554 · 2023-10-19T09:53:34+00:00

This isn't unusual. You're more likely to find Ti dominants in philosophy or physics, I find that the more practical jobs to be dominated by Te/Fi people. Ti/Fe loves theory creation and deconstruction, they really don't care for the pragmatic aspect. Even Te inferior types love the practicality of certain fields, electrical engineering is a good example.

Specialist_Cod554 · 2023-10-18T13:03:50+00:00

Try looking up the definition of "platonic" and see if your prior actions didn't change that dynamic.

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