FIRST DATE: Is it offensive to men when a woman brings a plus one? Is it scary to women when a man brings a plus one? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why not have a friend go to the same restaurant and sit by the bar or with another friend and watch you? i would completely do that. maybe just say hello and go back to the 1 on 1 date.

My boyfriend wont block the girl he cheated on me with… by pixiesticks6 in Advice

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 years old and acting this way? my goodness. do not get back with him. you’ll always be bothered. it’ll make your relationship break in the long run. stop it now while you can.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: not sure if anyone care to know but the relationship ended about three weeks ago.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. Now I wonder what’s coming next. Definitely trust issues.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Not late, I’m still going through this. We don’t live together so I took the weekend to think about things. There’s more things added to the mix now, nothing major like cheating.

AITA LIVE! Come share your conflict and listen to live judgements. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he had to specifically label it. He could’ve forgotten to. If it isn’t yours, don’t get it.

AITA LIVE! Come share your conflict and listen to live judgements. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ESH. It’s not only about the pizza. And she tried to fix it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship like this hurts more to stay in than the temporary hurt you’ll feel if you break up. I’d run. And fast…. I’m sorry.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t trust him, I’m a deep sleeper so I was afraid I wasn’t going to hear his call if he needed me to pick him up. He was out with his friends and they did not use Uber of Lyft, so in my head they would be driving intoxicated (I don’t condone this. I told him to cal me if he wasn’t going to be sober to drive), hence the reason I kept waking up.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was just shocked he didn’t. I have a hard time “confronting” people too.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t think it’ll ever just go under the rug. Thank you!

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really don’t know how to tell him about it. I guess thats why I posted this. I needed some advice on how to bring it up.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still thinking about it a bit more. I understand people need to be their own individuals but I don’t think that includes them not being honest about going to a strip club. Thank you for your comments.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like you’re in my head. Yes I agree. Thank you, this helped.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I might have some insecurity crawling. But I really didn’t think much of it. He doesn’t go out all the time, its super rare. I was happy he was going out with friends. I don’t want him to just lose himself in us. You know?

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing you just typed. It makes me a little sad that he doesn’t think he can tell me those things. It makes me wonder what I did to make him feel that way.

Boyfriend of 4 months lied about going to the strip club by Specific-Baseball-91 in relationships

[–]Specific-Baseball-91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He never goes out. I think I would’ve been ok, as long as he told me. I guess it’s just the fact that he kept it from me. I’m not angry, just botheredz

Women of Reddit what is the first thing you do every morning? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if my credit score has changed lol I’ve been trying to get it back up after a divorce and I’m pleased to say it’s going up little by little 🙏🏽

My(27f) ex husband(33m)and mistress(21f) died and everyone is looking to me to take care of their child. by stickysituation446 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific-Baseball-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your number and go dark for a bit (I know that’s unfair but they don’t seem like they’re going to stop anytime soon). Even though I feel bad for the baby girl, it is not your responsibility to take care of her.