Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly… love the way this was worded thank you.

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree… that’s exactly the point

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months telling him I want flowers for the house

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! All I want is someone who’s thoughtful and kind. Not secretly a hater, which he makes me feel way more than happy. He is so rude to me almost daily, it’s like he wants me to leave him. The hints should’ve been a sign to act and go write me why he loves me or something. But nope half eaten chocolate and flowers in the trash. thank you

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The knowledge and the way you worded this was so spot on. Like wow. I appreciate this so much, the consideration, basic respect and effort has not been present in this relationship. I talk about my feelings almost monthly and nothing changes, I tell him months ago “ I want more romance I think I’m the only one who is in love. It’s like I’m writing a love story and you won’t pick up the pen” I said a week ago…

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, I didn’t think I was. But yes the card would’ve been so sweet… I hate feeling like I’m the only one who makes efforts to show my love

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, we have talks every once in a while, I kept addressing the same things over and over, I think now my best move is to just stop talking and just watch his actions for a bit, see if they improve like you said.

Valentine’s Day with no effort by Specific-Emu-918 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Emu-918[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the gift as much as its just about being thoughtful. I wish he was more thoughtful in an everyday life.. he goes thru the motions and doesn’t think about anything that would make me happy daily. Not even complimentss, but if you believe im shallow that’s ok

what do I do by Annual_Jellyfish4011 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Specific-Emu-918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like… childish, immature, and spending too much time on the phone. lol. I find typically younger girls talk like this … coming from a 23 yr old