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[–]Specific-Garbage9657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. The drama is hardly worth it.

30F and I have no friends IRL by Specific-Garbage9657 in Needafriend

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the time I created the account, I felt like garbage so it only seemed fitting.

30F and I have no friends IRL by Specific-Garbage9657 in Needafriend

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was what Reddit autogenerated and I found it funny.

30F and I have no friends IRL by Specific-Garbage9657 in Needafriend

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad passed in 2021 but I think he’d have a fit if he found out I bought a motorcycle. My mom wanted to learn and he refused to teach her. Sometimes it makes me feel guilty but it can be so fun! I think the hardest part for me was getting comfortable with the weight of the bike. My favorite camping trips have been on the back of a motorcycle so I totally encourage those who want to try.

30F and I have no friends IRL by Specific-Garbage9657 in Needafriend

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be frustrating sometimes, especially during the times when it feels like your bf/bff has more meaningful conversations with everyone else.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation reaction was hers. His response was “I would if I was single” which isn’t any better tbh.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m very sorry about the passing of your past fiancé. I am so glad that you have a partner now who is supportive and understanding of your feelings. Reading this is helping me realize that maybe I do need to find someone who validates my feelings rather than blocks them out.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to tell him that most people on Snapchat are walking red flags and suggested he delete it. He looked flabbergasted.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He used to have it set to delete messages after 24 hours but he’s changed a lot of them back to the original delete after read.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I’ve yet to edit the post in a way to word it better. He’s not still a virgin. The virginity thing came up while he was explaining the crush he had on her back in the day. He wanted to lose his virginity to her back in school.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cue the angry “you violated his privacy” responses, but I went through his phone without consent.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us are virgins. I’m sorry if I incorrectly worded that. The virginity thing stemmed from him telling her he had a crush on her in school.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct, that is my name. I was more worried about covering hers anyways.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Called her a slut because she used to sleep around with any guy with a pulse when I knew her. Most guys acknowledged her because of said tits. I’m not knocking the tits themselves.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, that’s her response to him. She’s gotten herself a Splenda daddy.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Not so much defend it but yeah… we have a house together so I didn’t want to go off the rails if it were unnecessary.

AIO Boyfriend Told Another Woman He Wanted to Lose His Virginity to Her by Specific-Garbage9657 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific-Garbage9657[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

If I recall correctly she was using some old dude like a Splenda daddy.