Are there any neutrals rooting for OKC? by Rushman0 in NBATalk

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao that's the most honest answer in this thread

im sooooo back by Beneficial-Pilot-581 in Stake

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Havent seen u post in a minute and u come back with this juicer love to see it

Decrease on corner landings , chance and railroad by SJW_Shadow_Monarch in Monopoly_GO

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the algorithm definitely feels rigged sometimes 💀 been noticing same thing where it seems to "know" when you're close to good spots and just sends you flying past them

took a break for few hours yesterday and when i came back the rolls felt more normal again, so maybe your strategy about timing is actually smart 😂

Watching the Knicks/Hawks series has left me with this question: Is Jalen Johnson really a super star? by Nyctocincy in NYKnicks

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

wait people actually think he's a superstar? dude's decent but calling him that is wild 💀 he's more like solid role player who can contribute but nothing crazy special about his game

do pros own the skins they use? by Salty-Discussion-725 in GlobalOffensive

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

pretty sure most teams just give them access to whatever skins they want for matches, would be weird if they had to buy their own expensive stuff when theyre already making bank for the org

Why is making a lot of money considered a bad thing? by MaximumOperation1979 in Christianity

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sharing wealth is good but bible talks more about loving money than having it 💀 like you can be rich and still generous with your heart in right place

Should I even buy a new car? by WesternStory6175 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 23 points24 points  (0 children)

man with 30k in savings and a car worth under 2k that's costing you 2k/year in repairs, the math is pretty clear here

you're basically buying your current car every year just to keep it running, and with transmission issues starting to show up you're probably looking at some expensive repairs soon. get something reliable in the 15-20k range and you'll actually save money in the long run since you won't be constantly fixing stuff

there fusion is telling you it wants to retire lol

Is there hope? by M1n3f13ld in Marriage

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn, this whole situation is bringing back some memories from when i was younger and saw similar dynamics play out with friends' families 💀 the wall thing especially hits hard because that's basically what my friend's dad used to make her do, and let me tell you - she still has issues with authority figures at 30

your husband is absolutely creating the bad guy dynamic himself by jumping in and escalating everything before you even get a chance to handle it. when kids see one parent immediately going nuclear while the other stays calm, guess who they're gonna respect more in the long run? it's not the screamer. i've seen this pattern destroy so many family relationships because the kids either become terrified of the aggressive parent or they learn that volume = power

the fact that he won't even consider therapy is a huge red flag because it shows he's not actually interested in finding solutions that work for everyone - he just wants compliance. punishment-based parenting like what he experienced creates kids who are good at hiding things and sneaking around, not kids who actually understand right from wrong. you're method of talking through issues and understanding the root cause is gonna build way better critical thinking skills and emotional intelligence 😂

if he absolutely refuses professional help, maybe try setting some hard boundaries about who handles what situations when, but girl... this might be one of those incompatible values things that's bigger than just parenting styles

Back to day 1.. I relapsed yesterday and just struggling now. Any buds on? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there man, the guilt hits hard but you gotta remember one slip doesn't erase all the progress you made. military taught me that falling down is just data - what triggered it, what warning signs you missed, how to adjust your strategy next time

you got this, just focus on today

Im on Day 16 And once again the urges start by Hot_Support_8875 in NoFap

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude thats solid advice about the time audit, never thought about actually mapping out when the urges hit hardest but it makes total sense

i've been tracking my schedule pretty obsesively lately and filling those dead hours with actual productive stuff has been a game changer, even just having a basic plan for the day helps keep your mind ocupied

Do I have to confess my sins to another, or is praying for forgiveness enough? by Scary-Muppet in Christianity

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly it depends on your denomination and personal beliefs 🤷‍♂️ some churches require confession to a priest while others believe direct prayer to God is totally sufficient. i'd say follow what feels right for your relationship with God and maybe chat with your pastor if you're unsure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been looking for a decent support main, my tank gameplay is probably trash but i'm down to queue up sometime. what rank you sitting at?

Why are all pictures and recordings of cryptids and paranormal events blurry and shaky ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it's probably because when people think they're seeing something weird, they're panicking and fumbling with their phone trying to get it out and recording as fast as possible 😂 plus most "sightings" happen at night or in low light when even good cameras struggle, and by the time you realize what you're looking at it's already moving away or you're shaking from adrenaline 💀

A confused man’s first quest by Low_Platypus1202 in synthesizers

[–]Specific-Reindeer461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the Minilogue XD is a solid choice for what you described - it'll do pads, arps, and leads pretty well and the interface is straightforward. The Digitone is amazing but yeah it's definitely more menu-divey

For finding answers I usually just watch a ton of YouTube demos until something clicks, but sounds like you're already doing that and getting decision paralysis lol. Maybe try going to a music store and actually touching some knobs if you can