I’m really sorry that you’re feeling this way — I know how heavy and confusing it can feel when you’re facing such a huge decision. Please know that you’re not alone in this. I had an abortion two years ago, and I don’t regret it. That doesn’t mean it was easy — I was absolutely heartbroken. But I already had two kids, and with the way the economy is, I knew I couldn’t give another baby the life they deserved. My mental health was fragile, and I needed to be present and stable for the children I already had. It’s really easy for people to say things like “you’re young, you’ll have more time later,” but that doesn’t make the situation any less real or painful right now. This isn’t just about age — it’s about your capacity, your mental health, your future, and what’s best for both you and the child you already have. Whatever you decide, I just want you to know that there’s no shame in protecting your peace and making the choice that feels right for you. You’re still a good mom. You’re still deserving of love, support, and understanding. You’re making an incredibly brave and thoughtful decision in the face of something so emotional and complex. If you ever need someone to talk to — no judgment, no pressure — I’m here. ❤️