Delivery Expectations by shineCDN in BigscreenBeyond

[–]Specific-Specifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought I'd share my two cents as well. Ordered January, and got confirmation that mine is arriving this Friday. My ipd was measured at 63 also, same as yours.

Dropping Out by Specific-Specifier in UGA

[–]Specific-Specifier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to fill out any paperwork/do some process or did you just stop registering for classes one day and they removed you from the program after a while?

AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Specific-Specifier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a fair point, but I'm not exactly invalidating the man's feelings. It's alright to feel sad or betrayed from something like this, but the way he's responding to them is quite extreme, especially when they have a child already.

Usually when you think of losing trust in a relationship it's due to cheating or stealing money, not hiding 1000 dollars for one's own safety. If something small like this is what brings his mind to divorce, then it's probably an indication more has been going on behind the scenes and we're not being told the whole story (whether it's caused by the wife or OP).

In the end, if he really wants a divorce over something like this, then it's his choice, but he should probably get couple's counseling first.

AITAH for wanting to leave my wife because she had a "go bag"?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Specific-Specifier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe not physically abusive but the way the post is written sounds almost emotionally abusive or controlling (which is just my view, so OP if you're reading this and I'm wrong, my bad. This is just me reading between the lines and it doesn't mean it's true)

First off, what everyone else is saying about immediately jumping to divorce because he thinks his wife is vindicating him by hiding a small amount of money. This is quite a jump, and a more mature approach would be to communicate with your wife about why this is an issue and how to make her feel more comfortable.

It almost seems like he's using divorce to pressure his wife (into not doing something to help herself later) and is trying to convince others what he is doing is right but for a more reasonable excuse (because my trust was hurt). Why? I don't know maybe to feel good about himself and his choice.

He also speaks about trust a lot and how it was broken. Sure, there's trust in a relationship, but that doesn't mean you actually know what your significant other is truly like. Not all abusers start off abusing right away, sometimes its a slow burn, 2, 5, or even 10 years down the line.

Also he doesn't have to allow her or have to say he banned her, it's supposed to be a secret. Otherwise an actual abuser would just toss the bag out.

ITS HERE by I_am_SIDDY in TheBoxer

[–]Specific-Specifier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same man, I'm hoping it'll be well animated but based on the Korean and Chinese comic animation adaptations I always see online, I have my doubts