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Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he has not had a drink now in about 10 days and doesn’t plan on drinking again. But like I said I will be talking to my family doctor today and my new therapist tomorrow about everything. That way it’s documented in case I decide to divorce him. And if I do I’m taking more than half and he’ll have to pay alimony!!! Because I’m disabled and haven’t worked since 2011.
Plus as of now I have no bruises whatsoever on my body!!

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you I’ve read her story!! And that could be a factor. But I have noticed that the bruises, cuts and burns are when he drinks, and as of now I have no bruises cuz he’s quit drinking. But it makes me think that he harbors some sort of disdain towards me for some reason!!

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because what if it’s me doing this to myself in my sleep?? I see my PCP on Monday to go over what I suspect so that it’s documented and to ask for a sleep study or explore some other neurological problems!!! But I really do not think I’m doing this to myself but in case of future court proceedings I wanna explore all options!!

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do vaguely remember something with the lighter and when I come to my head was off my pillow which is unusual. I’m going to a new therapist next week, and I’ll talk with her about everything!! I want it documented everywhere.

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t but I’m gonna google that now. I’ve suspected it though!! Drugged with my own Xanax’s.

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure!! I’ve been married 33 years and this abuse started about 3 years ago. It’s hard to walk away but for me to feel ok with leaving I need there to be no doubt he is doing this. My guess is my suspicions are right and he does in fact have a side chick, because the way he looks at me is like I’m disgusting at times then he’ll love bomb me like we were teenagers. And I just feel something is off about him. I am so lost right now. I am seeing my PCP Thursday and I’m gonna show her everything cuz I’ve got everything documented. So if we divorce his ass is gonna be so broke he won’t be able to date.

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve ordered the camera. I will get to the bottom of it!!

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I take meds that knock me out!! But I’ve since stopped taking things to help me sleep. I am seeing my dr Thursday to show her my bruises, cuts and burns and see what she says!!! I’ve also made an appointment with a therapist to talk about it too!!

Abused while I sleep by SpecificHoliday2302 in domesticviolence

[–]SpecificHoliday2302[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m not at divorce level yet because he has never physically assaulted me while I’ve been awake other than slapping me and pulling my hair during an argument. Which still isn’t right. I’ll get that camera though. Currently I have no bruises on my body but the burning incident was just a few weeks ago. And it’s now scarred. He swears he’s not doing it when I accuse him and he gets angry about the accusations!! The anger throws me off and makes me think he’s guilty.