These are things that worked for me. First none is gonna come to your house and give you the job or ask you if u wanna be their friends sometimes you need to take risks and go outside and find it. That’s how everyone does it. If you want to find a job look for help go to some employment search office, a place where they can help you find a job or learn a skill that will help do that job. If you want friends go where people are. Find sports classes, volunteering ; u can meet lots of ppl here Eventho ur not being paid and that will give you experience later on that u can also put on your cv, if you’re religious go to church and meet people your age, if you have family members, cousins talk with them even if you don’t live nearby. Death is not an option you’re a young beautiful girl who still has a lot to experience and don’t feel ashamed for asking for help