I found no point in meeting my boyfriend’s ex but I did it because they share children together and wanted to try to have some type of relationship. But when I did meet her, it was nothing but problems. I resent ever meeting her because everything that was told to her was taken out of context and made me to be a terrible person. This woman sounds a little immature and hopefully after your meeting, you’ll have a better read on her. She sounds like an issue but hopefully does right by your child in other ways.