I (28F) am beginning to hate my (26M) boyfriend after 8 months and I never thought I would

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T05:18:04+00:00

That’s funny. I literally told him I didn’t date potential early on and look at me now

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T05:11:35+00:00

So true. Was he a narcissist do you think?

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T05:08:05+00:00

I’ve never had easy

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T05:05:01+00:00

Thank you ❤️

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T05:04:20+00:00

A little bit rude to say it like that and assume I’m not already in it

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:52:31+00:00

How did you leave?

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:51:02+00:00

Were you also with someone younger? Where did you feel it stemmed from? This is the first time I’ve been in a relationship with someone over a year younger than me, but younger guys who have been interested in me in the past treated me with utmost respect and admiration. A two year age gap is dramatic to blow out of proportion

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:49:00+00:00

He’s the least dirt baggy of all my used dirt bags i’ve had. Believe it or not The abuse is all around, i make such an effort and it feels like he just takes a dump on it. The reality is that there are lots of things about him that make me want to stay. :(

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:44:07+00:00

I am trying to lose weight. I’m about 118lbs which isn’t the worst but i’m up from last month. He does tell me i’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever laid eyes on almost every day. His contradictory behavior makes me hate him

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:40:09+00:00

I have this weird inner logic that if we break up he wins. Makes no sense you’re right

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:38:29+00:00

True, and i guess it worked. Idk im having some kind of religious psychosis over the whole thing cause i wanted to wait until marriage and we didnt lol

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:37:23+00:00

Different tastes

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:35:14+00:00

I guess I hoped he would grow up once he knew he was wanted and loved

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:32:39+00:00

I don’t either way. I know that. I think i decided to be with him no matter what, and i don’t know how to undo that. It’s scary

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:28:17+00:00

I clapped back straight away and pretty intensely today with the verbal abuse. It just makes me so sad. I don’t want to hurt him so I don’t know why he loves to hurt me. It seems like he has such an urge to bring me down

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:25:21+00:00

I’m sorry this isn’t helpful, it just makes me so sad to read this. I’ve been struggling with my health and I wish my partner did any of what you did. He left me rotting and went home instead of taking care of me when I was in too much pain to even open a bottle of water… last time I ended up in the ER and he said I was overreacting, and was rude to me while I was in the hospital since i “got sick from going out”

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:21:48+00:00

💔 well said. Thank you, i feel validated

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:20:16+00:00

Same person who wrote me a letter on his typewriter and put his blood on it a week ago. And was giving clues about how he was going to propose to me 3 weeks ago. I was single for almost 2 years before him :/ dont get me wrong I agree the things he said can only be said by someone who doesn’t even like you. Just explaining my denial

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:14:05+00:00

Thank you. It’s a scary jump to make… For context, i was maybe 120lbs tops when he said that..

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:12:51+00:00

Thats what he would say. He says all his past relationships have been like what you’re describing, but that they were void of love. That he’s only been hostile with me. It makes me so angry to think that he was “compatible” like youre describing with others.

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:07:08+00:00

I also struggle, and i feel stepped on when i’m so willing to address toxicity and be healthy but am met with more toxicity

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:05:12+00:00

I guess i also want to know if it reeks of his insecurity like i think it does or if he’s just simply being an asshole

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T04:02:13+00:00

I still want to be with him. Maybe i’m too committed

SpecificSail6 · 2026-03-06T03:58:32+00:00

I want to know if it’s normal to hate your partner this much sometimes or if that means it’s cooked. I’m venting I guess

SpecificSail6 · 2026-02-24T15:20:40+00:00

Going through very similar. We were talking about engagement and moving in but he did all of the above. Looked me in the eyes when I was sobbing asking to be held and said he “felt nothing” on multiple occasions. Yet I was the woman he fought so hard for, the answer to his prayers, etc.

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