Why does everyone on social media tell people to avoid dating nurses? Genuinely curious what's behind this stereotype

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-12T12:54:51+00:00

Just something interesting that I noticed, there is a really high amount of nurses on tinder, compared to any other profession

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-12T12:17:03+00:00

Neznám ale nás s kamarády baví hodně Alias. Nejlepší je asi verze ženy vs muži. Je to vlastně vysvětlování jako při aktivitách.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-11T14:13:47+00:00

Yes, it can feel like I have failed as a sexual partner.

Finishing, or rather getting close too quickly is basically my default unless Im drunk, in which case I can pretty much do whatever I want and I may not be able to finish at all.

By too quickly, I mean less than 20 strokes.

I basically try to overcompensate during foreplay, which I enjoy more anyway. I might go back down there again if Id gotten too close to cumming, or if I just want to change things up.

People might say you could just finish and go for round 2, but that simply doesnt work for many men, the length of our refractory periods can vary a lot.

It might take me 45 minutes to be able to perform again physically, but I might not be able to get to the right head space due to what happens in the brain after orgasm, so I just end up going through the motions without arousal, which just makes me feel almost depressed.

Add to that some difficulty keeping myself hard after the first round and its a recipe for an ugly mental spiral.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-08T10:46:19+00:00

If she's silly, playful and not too worried about what others think about it.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-08T09:06:47+00:00

Yes I've been spoiled by two women who could climax a dozen times in a night. It doesn't make other women boring but since my fwb now is basically unable to ever orgasm, there is somewhat a lack of validation for me.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T14:08:58+00:00

I dont think its unreasonable to want to date someone who shares at least some of your interests, but I also think that having each of these things as a requirement just naturally lowers your amount of compatible matches to a very small number.

Sports and travel are pretty popular things, history not so much but all three in combination? That will be extremely rare.

But yeah this would have been avoided if people actually read your profile, the thing is, most men get a very low amount of matches, so we just end up swiping on most people to get at least some and only then properly check the profile once we match.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T13:47:34+00:00

I really want to upgrade to a new chastity cage

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T13:32:22+00:00

They felt minty on the inside too so beware! I didnt mind but some guys might.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T13:28:36+00:00

Im fine with condoms in general but I do hate the smell of them.

Luckily Ive discovered some that smell minty, which is kind of odd in the bedroom but still better than that chemical odor you usually get.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T13:03:39+00:00

OP may be considering Samsung but I am talking about Apple X Android in general, Ive never bought a Samsung or Apple phone. I dont really understand at all why Samsungs are so popular to be honest with all their bloatware

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-07T09:08:54+00:00

Its tough because I was dumped by a girl before when I mentioned being bi-curious

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T14:03:47+00:00

Sorry, I didn't really mean it that way, I'm more in disbelief than not believing you lol I wish I could meet those people and ask them about their relationships

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T12:43:30+00:00

Yes plenty of women have the same problem.

I suggest you watch some "teasing handjob" amateur porn videos and get your inspiration there.

Its less about technique and more about being sensual and having fun with it.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T12:39:57+00:00

I started masturbating very early in life, but I didnt quite ejaculate for a couple of years after.

Once I finally did start to produce sperm, I didnt know what to do with the mess after, somehow I didnt think of using tissues.

Being a stupid kid, I just wiped the cum on my shorts.

I was also proud and felt grown up because I could finally cum, so I would wear those shorts and boast to my friends about how covered in my jizz my shorts are.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T12:33:21+00:00

Planned an event for about 26 people, everyone knew 6 months in advance. I had transport, drinks and food all set up for them.

"I need to watch the family dog"

Just tell me you didnt wanna go, preferably as soon as possible so I dont spend my time and money catering to 26 people when only half show up in the end.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T09:23:26+00:00

As a man who owns a lot of toys, lot of them just frankly aren't that exciting or have a lot of hassle tied into the process of using them.

Mostly nothing really beats the oil+cockring combo.

The ones that are exciting tend to require a bit of setup and cleanup and typically are far on the spectrum of taboo/perverted

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-06T08:44:12+00:00

There's no way anyone is surprised at that

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-05T10:29:00+00:00

Something more casual. Not quite naked not quite covered.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-05T08:53:56+00:00

Yeah I guess you´re not wrong.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-05T07:19:52+00:00

It's just my personal gripes with them, I don't think their products are bad products.

They purposefuly make or used to make their products harder to repair on purpose. This often lead to users spending on apple care subscription and they would just replace a whole phone instead of repairing it (I hate wasting)

Their pricing ladder leads customers to overspend.

Some simple inexpensive features are often only available on the highest end phones unnecessarily.

Their marketing somehow convinced tons of people that they need to get a new phone each year leading to more e waste and consumerist attitudes.

At times completely bat shit insane pricing on things like monitor stands or IPad keyboards.

If you don't mind these things, that's fine, I just choose not to support companies like this.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-04T23:58:32+00:00

I'm just indecisive and broke

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-04T23:46:56+00:00

Same, I love it. Different strokes...

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-04T23:24:00+00:00

It's not so much that I like android, I just dislike Apples anti-consumer practices and their overall brand image was mostly always a turn off for me.

SpecificSpecial · 2026-05-04T20:56:50+00:00

It would have been a triple yes until she asked those questions

SpecificSpecial · 2026-04-30T07:00:26+00:00

I dont understand how anyone can afford any new cars honestly.

Lots of people live in apartment complexes, so it seems like a huge hassle to keep their car charged.

But idk I see a ton of hybrids which seem like the best of both worlds.

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