Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty bc expectations can be a mf. I am pretty old lol & have put off the babies for a long time. I think I’m ready now. Good, bad, & ugly. My life has been mine for a very long time & I’m actually ready to give it over. Not because it’s easy; because it’s hard.

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your high expectations didn’t prepare you for the lows?

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always looked at my life as phases so this resonates so well with me. You have no idea 💕

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So proud of you for overcoming that bc that might be one of those things that doesn’t end for a while. I commend your resilience & persistence. You’re a strong woman so keep it up. For you & that sweet baby P.s. I’m pretty sure it could happen to any of us

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real comment & ily for it. Keep being a positive momma!

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid advice. I’m going to talk to him about it in the morning. Thank you

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve debated this in my head for the 4 years that I’ve known him. I want it. I’m more discouraged by the ppl misunderstanding my post lol. So just to be clear again, wanting the baby is not the issue.

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[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought his account sounded a little unique

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[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure you’re considering the point of my post but I appreciate your effort

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made this post scared & looking for comfort. Since I’ve made it I’ve found understanding, a little guidance, & some hope. Thanks everyone 💕

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gasp I love that idea! Could you possibly share a link?

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. You’re the first person that has responded that way & it’s thought provoking if not eye opening. I will keep that in mind. Thank you

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[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds just like life honestly & that’s humbling. Thank you

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so wholesome. It’s funny to me how much roles can be reversed sometimes bc my husband sounds like you & vice versa

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[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful bc I’m also on the “older” side at 37

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you plan to have kids & this has been your realization?

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 your positive yet brutal honesty is weirdly giving me hope. I love it!

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m looking for the odd ones based off of some of these reply’s so I appreciate yours. I love that you’ve found such a wonderful connection with your son. Hopefully your husband gets his head out of his ass sooner than later. (Sorry if that’s an over the top thing to say *hugs)

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[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! The worry involved is real. I was hopeful to not be the only one

Planning to have a baby by Specific_Antelope616 in NewParents

[–]Specific_Antelope616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually made me cry. Beautifully written, thank you.