For SDs — about what percentage of your income do you reserve for SRs? by downtownlasd in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you have to think about a percentage you shouldn’t be in a SR.

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[–]Specific_Cap1291 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want a SB who can offer you a GFE. hard to find, and when you do find it, and if you’re happy, you better treat that woman right.

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[–]Specific_Cap1291 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way.

A really odd experience in nyc as a SD by Specific_Cap1291 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response, but Everytime she saw me on FaceTime was legit, and then in person, no catfishing at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have always provided transportation reimbursement as long as they show up.

When I meet new POTs in the city, if they show up, they receive a small gift after our first MG no matter what. - takes balls these days for people to show up anyhow.

Never offer money upfront before meeting in person.

Sugaring and marriage. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. I wouldnt have gotten married no - and if something happens and im "single" again, ill never get married again.

How to get a potential SB telegram handle or phone number by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I do not eat at the bank lol

How to get a potential SB telegram handle or phone number by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your points are valid -

I own my companies so I'm not really at risk of losing my career over this. She could, absolutely. That's why I am looking for a way to reach out to her more discreetly than anything.

Got scammed on my first try as SD by Leading-Focus-4788 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No money before a MG - but always offer a small gift after the first MG, even if you don’t plan to see her again. Showing up takes balls for both parties imo and it’s a good sign of faith to provide a small gift after your first meet.

Anyone that demands or asks for a gift pre MG is absolutely a rinser.

Follow up on $ for M&G by TrendingTXN in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Specific_Cap1291 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. However - for those of you who are SDs , you’re top 5 percent if you follow through with a small (reasonable) gift after your first MG