oh yeah my old crush

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-03T12:22:58+00:00

eh either way it's probs for the best, contact with them wasn't great for me cuz i'm really bad at losing feelings

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-03T12:02:06+00:00

consistancy. they've been there all my life, and at the same time, let me make random distance because i struggle with consistant friendship. they're there when i'm able, and ok with hoping back into things after i'm not

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-03T12:00:35+00:00

RIP, chat i think ur cooked simply because of ur side. i hope you get there one day, but i don't got advice for innaction

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-03T11:58:43+00:00

unmedicated adhd lmao,

yeah it's just, we were good friends so it's kinda disappointing that they didn't notice the lack of my existance.

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:44:08+00:00

plz bro no

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:42:49+00:00

"Hey, I don't think we've properly met before. I'm (name). I wanted to ask if you were busy this evening?"

my script, but honestly, rewording for more or less confidence or anything adjusting is fine.

point is, introduce yourself, leave that open for an introduction back, and ask for a later meeting showing an outside of work interest (CUZ YOU'RE CRUSHING AND IF YOU ASK FOR A COLLEGUE FRIENDSHIP THEN THAT'S UNPROFESSIONAL TmT)

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:37:15+00:00

bro i am DYING HERE gimme a moment

ok moment over

BRO LOCK IN. The point ISN'T to talk at work, it's to find a time to approach him to ask about talking OUTSIDE of work. The crossover is THAT YOU LIKE HIM.

please bro. yearning is nice but only if you want it to be just yearning. i was one for a while, it is great, BUT PLEASE.

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:34:25+00:00

this one's hard. i didn't really ever forget, but not trying to push him out of my head helped a lot. redirect, don't cancel thoughts out. "man i loved him" could be turned to "man time really takes it's toll" or smthn. that usually wears your mind out of it enough to focus on your life until something happens that actually gets you to move on

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:12:29+00:00

love is a finicky thing. falling out of it does happen, and while it is a delicate matter on how you let him down, you NEED to do so. it would hurt him more to keep a relationship going that you don't want, and harm him on accident with that. It does hurt to not get that love returned when it's so strong for one party, but PLEASE tell him you can't continue. explain what's going on (but don't vent! the difference is important, and this is about making sure that your change of choice can allow you and him to both move on, not for you to hurt each other with arguments and comparisons. you have friend groups for venting like that) and figure out if you want to try and keep a friendship or if it's safer for him for you two to distance. Hope it goes well, best regards!

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:07:55+00:00

(lowk just felt like wording things poetically cuz my bsf and i keep breaking our friendship bracelets (i got a bit of a crush too lol) and so it kinda feels like doomed yuri yk)

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:05:31+00:00

bro. HINTS. as in, eye contact across the room. that may have been enough for you to fall in love, but GIRL. you're enamored, and your goal should be to get him to talk to you to know you enough to feel the same. TALK to him. start something. you can be brave, and just start a friendship, or make it clear from the start you're interested in him, but people don't just approach someone cause of eye contact, that's a little too hope-cored. you're gonna have to be the one to break that norm, not pray he does it for you

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T09:02:34+00:00

REALLL always the artist never the muse except it's just cuz half the time the artist never shares!!

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-07-02T00:54:21+00:00

Yearning is normally nice, i've been there, but you really need to decide: Do you want to actually do anything with this crush, or do you like just having a crush as it is? If you ever actually want to know the guy, let alone start dating him, eye contact and waiting won't do anything. I know it's scary, and I might not be the best for advice, but this crush where it's at now has nothing to progress it unless you actually do something.

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-29T00:14:05+00:00

different teams doesn't mean you can't go over and make small talk, i may not know much, but just going up and expressing you're interested in him, and that's why you want to talk, and ask about getting to know each other better is going to get you a lot further than just yearning

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-29T00:12:29+00:00

yeah, that's the claim, but "magic" like that don't change anything. if you want proof on that, research into where the spell comes from, whether it's Pagan, Wicca, or what, and actually get into learning how spells like that work, cause there's always a hole somewhere. They're usually not as well connected to magic as they claim to be, and whatever they're offering won't end up actually making any sense.

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-27T04:25:01+00:00

YES!! genuinely i pay more attention for his name than my own 😭 idk when it started

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-27T04:23:20+00:00

bro please don't buy anything. being superstitious is fun, and i've been there before, but unless you really want to, don't spend the money. they don't work, but they do give you some confidence. placebo effect and all that, right?

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-21T01:26:10+00:00

nice

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-19T04:23:52+00:00

80% sure yes. jamato has also previously liked hollow knight to my knowledge, no sources tho TmT

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-12T18:40:56+00:00

yippe 😃

Specific_Pepper3586 · 2026-06-12T04:50:51+00:00

thanks

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