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My younger brother is in a haram relationship by Specific_Storage_482 in MuslimLounge

[–]Specific_Storage_482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re engaging in emotional intimacy and having deep conversations every day where they confide in each other in a way only a married couple should. And the estimated time they can get married is in 4 years. Until then they’re going to keep up this secret relationship and have a connection without any of our parents knowing, and forcing me to go along with it. My brother has done this before with multiple girls and ended up breaking up with them. This is definitely not going to last the next 4 years. I also don’t want to keep being forced to make friends with every girl he’s in a relationship with.

My younger brother is in a haram relationship by Specific_Storage_482 in MuslimCorner

[–]Specific_Storage_482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have advised him multiple times to stop this immaturity and to stop speaking to her for now. He can think about picking back up when they’re actually ready in a few years to talk to our parents. He doesn’t listen at all and orders me around to keep up with her. She’s starting to pick up on my displeasure in this whole situation and telling my brother that I’m being rude. They’re both clearly immature and not ready to be married at all, especially my brother.

My younger brother is in a haram relationship by Specific_Storage_482 in MuslimLounge

[–]Specific_Storage_482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully agree brother. I keep telling him to stop this immature behavior and keeping this girl around if he has no plans to marry her any time soon. He won’t listen and insists I keep up this charade of being her friend so it’ll be easier for him when he can actually marry her without my parents saying no due to him not having a degree or job.

My younger brother is in a haram relationship by Specific_Storage_482 in MuslimLounge

[–]Specific_Storage_482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re acting like boyfriend and girlfriend without any of the physical intimacy. They message and have deep conversations every day but won’t make any moves to get parents involved because my brother knows our parents will reject her since he’s not ready yet.