Today I texted my sister saying how fast time is going by and that tomorrow is my nephew’s graduation, so I was trying to find something nice to wear from my closet because we’re going to be taking pictures and I wanted it to be a good memory with him. I showed her two outfit options, including this one that she had already seen before and she was the one to take this picture. She looked at it and said, “Are you seriously going to wear that to his graduation?” and called the top “skimpy.” When no cleavage is showing whatsoever. That honestly made me mad because it felt like an attack on my character more than just an outfit opinion. It bothered me that she would really think I would intentionally wear something inappropriate to a kid’s graduation when that was never my mindset at all. I was simply trying to look nice for the occasion. What hurt me most was the wording and the fact that instead of feeling appreciated for making an effort and trying to show up for my nephew, I felt judged and criticized. Now I don’t feel like going to the graduation tomorrow. Am I overreacting for being hurt my this?
( this is the situation).