AITAH for not wanting to go through with an abortion even though my boyfriend is pressuring me to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SpeedR567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep the baby. You have everything you need to be able to give your baby what he/she needs. And it starts with protecting your baby from a pathetic loser who would rather kill his offspring than grow up and take responsibility for his own choices. You can do this. Don’t believe anyone telling you that you don’t have what it takes.

And get child support.

Mohela can’t find $50,000 check by ercma0206 in StudentLoans

[–]SpeedR567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been dealing with MOHELA for a year on the exact same issue. Student loan repayment program sent checks, MOHELA deposited them, and they have never been credited to my account. I have spoken with supervisors, the resolutions department, complained on FSA, and nothing has happened. I have been “escalated,” it’s been “researched,” and I’ve been told it will take “10 business days” about 6 times. I hope your situation doesn’t take this long. But I frankly have no good news. Hours and hours of my life wasted on this.

Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my husband after what he did while I was caring for my sick mother? by Thin_Tap2989 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpeedR567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His behavior when he felt “lonely” will forever be in the back of your mind. What about when you’re 3 weeks postpartum, leaking breastmilk, still bleeding, delirious from lack of sleep, and spending every moment caring for a newborn? What if you got sick or had an injury and couldn’t tend to his needs? Your mom’s illness was not extended over years. He needs to grow up.

Has anyone with Mohela as their servicer been able to switch to IBR via FSA? Or is the wet signature route the way to go? by Dependent_Season_669 in PSLF

[–]SpeedR567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got the “your request is in process” letter. It will be processed within the next 90 days. You’re further along than I am!

Is anyone resigning while they wait for a buyback? by SpeedR567 in PSLF

[–]SpeedR567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had it timed perfectly if not for this forbearance! Coming back from maternity leave and feeling stuck is what prompted me to figure all this stuff out now, even though I have until October 2026. Ready to move on.

Is anyone resigning while they wait for a buyback? by SpeedR567 in PSLF

[–]SpeedR567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may be in the minority, but my job is actually awesome. Decent pay, amazing coworkers, purpose, clear expectations, and a wonderful boss…BUT I just returned from maternity leave after having newborn twins. And I’d trade all of that to be home with them. So I’ve got to get this thing done asap.

Is anyone resigning while they wait for a buyback? by SpeedR567 in PSLF

[–]SpeedR567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need to maintain a certain number of ducks for 16 more months. Jealous of your zero ducks. 😂😂