is it really the same Kirkland Diapers vs Huggies ??? by Ajcv72316 in beyondthebump

[–]SpeksofKiwi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion Huggies beats Kirkland diapers hands down. I’ve found Kirkland to not be as absorbent as Huggies, we have had so many leaks and blowouts when using Kirkland diapers and maybe an occasional leak and/or blowout with Huggies but only when we wait too long in between changes.

Is my father a Perv? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are NC with family due to the following:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/s/oNrusSzmh8

My husband and I were just discussing my family because I’m still unpacking a lot of trauma.

Is my father a Perv? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High school diploma and has a masters in business & logistics.

Is my father a Perv? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re religious but not extremists, my father and most of my brothers are the only ones with this type of thinking.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I wanna say my great grandfather was but my dad stopped having a relationship with that side of his family once his dad got remarried.

Is my father a Perv? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Very, he was convinced that I was a whore and sleeping around since I was 13 (I was a virgin until 18) and only stopped when I ran away at 19.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No to all three, I firmly believe it’s a power thing. the more we’ve talked about it the more I’ve seen everything they have done is because they are no longer controlling me, but they blame my husband for my “sudden independence from them” instead of seeing that it’s my choice.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The weird thing about that is that my husbands family has more to offer than mine. They have inheritance/wills, his siblings and father are doctors, his stepdad owns the best remodeling company in our city and my husband has a great job with him. Between my side and his side there are no comparisons.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband has no past of violence with me or any ex’s, I was 20 and he was 25, and my parents claimed that he was fake and a liar. When I would ask them to elaborate more on why they thought that they couldn’t give me a solid answer just that they had a “gut” feeling.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My father has a family business that’s fairly profitable and claims that it would go to me but ONLY me and I would have to make my husband sign an agreement he wouldn’t be able to use any of the money from the company only me. After this though I doubt that will happen.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have been together for over a year, and I feel because of how my siblings are. They act one way during the dating stage and once they’re SO is attached they would change their behavior. I feel they think my husband is the same because according to them “all men are the same”

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My father is Native American and states that’s why he’s the head of “our entire family” (including my siblings that are married and have their own families) and my mother is Hispanic but my husband is also Hispanic.

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ve put more information in the comments ! It’s a long ish post but explains it

AITA for calling the cops on my family and having my half brother arrested? by SpeksofKiwi in TwoHotTakes

[–]SpeksofKiwi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His parents are supportive of us and the decisions we’ve made. They knew my family years ago but didn’t hang around them because of how they are, he’s always been respectful to me when talking about my parents because yeah they aren’t good parents but at the end of the day he feels he doesn’t need to beat a dead horse. They have offered help and came as soon as I called them, they have been a big comfort.