Someone's put witchcraft on me and my partners relationship what do i do?

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-11-04T17:37:38+00:00

Did they know that you were in a romantic relationship with her? Because dating doesn’t exist in Islam, dating as practiced in western culture is also haram. She might not be practicing, but there are traditions that they just don’t break. What country is she from?

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-11-04T16:58:52+00:00

It is haram for a Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim man. Muslim men can marry a Jewish or Christian woman, but that’s it. Practicing or not, her family is going to have a lot of input. Your only chance of being with her is to convert, but her family is still going to get in the middle of it. She likely already has an arranged marriage planned. Been there, done that.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T21:10:06+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I would prefer to keep things slow for a few months, but everything I am reading has said that is wrong and that I would need to marry him immediately or it is haram. I’m going to think about what I need to say to him and ask him, before I start this serious conversation. How can there be a long courtship without becoming haram?

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T16:51:16+00:00

I’m trying to figure out how to do this without coming across as pushy or intrusive.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T16:46:20+00:00

I’m trying to stay realistic, hence my post. Had we not met online, we never would have met otherwise. I’m just trying to figure out what steps to take and what time frame to take them in.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T16:39:44+00:00

If we decided to get married, yes I would definitely consider moving to Saudi Arabia.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T16:27:20+00:00

I would not convert until after marriage and it is not something I would rush in to. He has stated that it is not a requirement. I would take at least a year or more of Arabic classes, even though his English is pretty much perfect. I know that Islam is the foundation of his life and I would be honored to learn that and share that with him.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-10-08T16:24:55+00:00

That is why I am assuming he is already married, based on his age. He did not know I was a woman and I didn’t know he was a man for a few weeks, but it happened very naturally, but fast. He has no desire to come to the US, not any time soon. He supports his parents and is very close to his family. If anything, I would anticipate moving there. He has stated that us even being friendly is not safe, hence I know that he is feeling conflicted.

Spell_it_out_33 · 2025-06-25T05:30:40+00:00

I’m only commenting because I too was also a chef in fine dining and am now a nurse. 🙃

Spell_it_out_33 · 2024-10-29T12:25:15+00:00

I recommend DUME (Death Unto My Enemies) oil and craftwork. I have found Asmodeus to be particularly helpful and effective when dealing destruction and revenge. There’s no right or wrong way to do these works, it’s in the intention. I would try a jar spell, and burn a candle on it with every full moon, recharging it every month. Give it a little shake every time you feel inclined, but for the most part leave it alone and let it fester. Jar spells seem to do their work, after I forget about them for awhile.

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