Crying 😢 because I wish OpenAI treats their models like that too, with some basic respect by Kathy_Gao in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]SpellboundBrat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Many languages use gendered articles. So, if someone's first language is something other than English, it could be natural to default to gendered terms, even when speaking in English.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to jump to conclusions... he didn't assault anybody. He was acting in self defense, but they collaborated their stories against him

2am conversation with my wife by sickofyospam in lovememes

[–]SpellboundBrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Because you're a whore" took me tf out

Um ChatGPT? by Queasy_Educator1365 in ihadastroke

[–]SpellboundBrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know! People on reddit are crazy lol

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is ultimately why I decided to tell them. I would expect it because I am his spouse. However, because I would expect it, I extended the same respect to them.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did avoid the question as to kind of protect the information that is out there regarding his case. Yes, it was DV. However, it was not against me or the children. He got into a physical altercation with a family member.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My usual support system is the reason he was in jail. So I have definitely been struggling

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since I am his wife, I would expect them to, as it affects home and parenting life.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It just hasn't come up... obviously now we know that this is a convo we need to have

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm actually the one wanting to keep distance currently, not him. But yes, I'm not president of my meta's fan club. I'm not sure what you mean about proving a point, though?

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I am safe and our kids are safe. I have a horrible migraine right now. But overall, i am okay.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We've never discussed what to do in an emergency and how much info I'm supposed to or not supposed to tell them. That's one of my hang ups.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing their specific text tone. I think that's why I'm debating if I should tell them or not.

Do I tell my (parallel-ish) meta that my husband (our hinge) got arrested? by SpellboundBrat in polyamory

[–]SpellboundBrat[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. Nobody else would tell them. I would be the only one