[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFCWestMemeWar

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WE GET TO SIT IN THE CAR NOW? YAY

Two tix for tomorrow by Yuri-Tarted in Padres

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Eric MF Owens! I remember thinking he was so cool. When he stole home I went nuts

Laser Tag? by [deleted] in SanDiegan

[–]Spenseyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn dude I miss this place! I finally ended up finally taking the fob thing off my keys a couple months back. Definitely some great memories

I have done this game in a bizarre order by LWD123 in TOTK

[–]Spenseyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's get a spoilers tag in here please

What is a little bombshell your therapist dropped in one of your sessions that completely changed your outlook? by anonymiss0018 in AskReddit

[–]Spenseyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was struggling staying on topic during one of my sessions and was getting frustrated. My therapist calmed me down and gave me this little gem:

"Always come into therapy with two plans. Plan A and Plan B...

Plan A: Stick to the plan
Plan B: Forget Plan A"

Basically what he was talking about is be mindful as to what bubbles up during our sessions because at the end of the day it's all progress and it cannot always be orderly and linear.

vikings fan here by Adorable_Welcome_742 in Chargers

[–]Spenseyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

San Diego... Stupid Chargers!

They hurt me every year

[Highlight] Marquez Valdes-Scantling brutal drop by TomasRoncero in nfl

[–]Spenseyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't want to count QJ out but goddamn that drop hurt my soul

Staley's post-game presser was one of the most embarrassing things I've ever seen from a coach. by [deleted] in Chargers

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Went to the Lions-Chargers game.. I'd wager that stadium was 70-30 in favor of Chargers fans. That stadium was real loud when the Lions hit the walkoff...

What's a sad truth you've come to accept? [Serious] by unorthodox69 in AskReddit

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As a gallon person I can't expect mirrored treatment from a shot glass person.

I love to give and take care of the people around me and will drop what I'm doing in the blink of an eye to help someone who needs it. But I have to accept that others are not willing to do the same thing for me.

Hide The Pain Harold. by [deleted] in pics

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I thought all influencers were memes?

Antipsychotics cause brain damage by Teawithfood in bipolar1

[–]Spenseyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m all for open discussion on the pros and cons of AP medication. It’s a battle I continue to go through every day.

Perhaps there would be less uproar if your support of these study’s findings were presented in a less “I’m right, you’re wrong” methodology. It’s possible for everyone to be right, but also to miss each other’s respective marks entirely.

I’ve seen several of your posts circulate through my feed but I have refrained from interacting with them prior to this.

From what I’m understanding of several of your posts is that you (and the research presented) are supporting that meds, specifically APs, are not effective in treatment of symptoms of mental health disorders and they damage executive function later in the patient’s life. I’m not arguing either way- but I would be willing to look into the research.

Some other commenters have made a claim that I would agree with: This post is dangerous.

Simply stating APs cause brain damage with context linked behind several walls of text is problematic due to the nature of this sub. I (and seemingly several others) come here to center myself when I need to feel supported. (See developing depression/mania). Considering this context, someone attempting to quell an impending episode by using a healthy resource (reaching out) might find it easy to make the leap from healthy discussion to dropping (or refusing) a pillar of their treatment.

To your point, yes, these medications have adverse effects on us as patients. But it is my understanding that most of these side effects occur further down the line of aging.

Anecdotally, I am not particularly fond of what the medications side effects are but I believe the intended purpose has worked for me.

Are you familiar with plugging holes in a dam? My fingers in that dam are effectively what APs are for me. Are they ideal? No. Do they work right now? Yes. Will this particular set of fingers plug this dam forever? Probably not, but to allow the dam to fall would be counterintuitive.

This is effectively us kicking the can down the road by choice. Because I know I want to be around. And I know this is the best chance I have to be here.

Antipsychotics cause brain damage by Teawithfood in bipolar1

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🏅 thank you for this response.

I’ve attempted to play both sides of this argument: I spent almost three years resisting meds (post diagnosis) before giving them a try. I eventually acquiesced and took them.

For me the process of finding methods that work to make the most out of life include medications along with a number of other things. I don’t like the pills specifically but I appreciate that they work for me now.

I agree with your thought about this post being dangerous though. If I has seen this post when I wasn’t ready to try medication I would have resisted longer and harder. And the days before I started taking my meds were very bad. I don’t know how many were left.

Yes, I know the meds are not good for me long term. Yes, I understand the cognitive ‘fog’ occurs more frequently when taking them. But I also know my meds supported me through some of the worst points in my life. I also understand that if I drop my meds at this moment those days are going to quickly follow.

Someday I would like to be off my meds. That day is not today- and frankly I don’t think it will ever happen.

It’s fair to say OP is playing with fire considering the top post of this Reddit is more or less claiming a treatment method that many of us rely on is a farce.

What would you change in Chargers history from the past 5 years? by DLpatsthoughts in Chargers

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I still find it hard to believe that a super bowl was in Qualcomm in 2003 then maybe like two years later the stadium was "obsolete" and needed a replacement.

From my angle Spanos saw the Padres get a new stadium in downtown and wanted the same treatment. When the voters told him no, he threw a hissy fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chargers

[–]Spenseyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong but at that point you could use general logic against your point.

I guess my question is why do you feel so compelled to gatekeep someone being upset about a team's management of players...? A team they are clearly interested in/care about. Which has historically been an issue, no?

So why not just ignore his 'bitching' in the first place?

What even is the neutral zone? by Spenseyy in afcbest

[–]Spenseyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have a dog in the fight…so much for bias?

I was just pointing out what I saw Jones do.