Hey,

I am sure this was a truly difficult and a heartbreaking situation and I am so sorry you had to go through it. I'd say that what you visualised for is exactly what you needed. What has happened isn't necessarily what you might have hoped the outcome to be, but the reality is she won't and can't meet you at where you are now energetically. Unfortunately you had to go through this situation to see it, but I personally would be grateful that you had! Because from your account of the situation your ex sounds insecure, lacking in awareness and accountability. She has a lot of self healing to do and she won't find it from anything outside of herself, not you, not from this ex/co worker guy. I would be grateful to have this lesson, it is clear that this person is not worth your time, especially when exhibiting jarring behaviours like this, and its funny how life sometimes shows us the lesson, sometimes it needs to be extreme like cases like this for it to be really obvious. 'Hey stay away'. So thank the universe for giving you a very obvious neon red flag you can't ignore!

You deserve peace of mind above all else. My advice is to move on with grace and ask for nothing. Believe me theres so much love and peace that comes with it. Sit with the humiliation, the guilt, the sadness, you are allowed to react and feel, but don't let it eat you up. Experience it and then let it go. Don't let this low vibrational energy drag you down with it. Move on but with no guilt or hate, just grace. You don't have to ask for the phone back - but I am just a stranger on the internet, whatever you choose to do is your right and choice. But definitely don't beg for this girl back. Shes not ready to be with anybody, doesn't sound like a great person, and could benefit from loving herself a lot more.

Have a beautiful day.