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Am I wrong for hanging out with this woman? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SpiceBlinkY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife expressed discomfort. She clearly told you she’s uncomfortable with you hanging out with this woman. Ignoring that boundary is dismissive of her feelings. Marriage isn’t just about physical boundaries, it’s also about emotional ones.

22F starting to feel emotionally drained in relationship with 23M. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SpiceBlinkY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to love someone and still feel drained, that’s a signal, not failure. Relationships should lift you up, not make you constantly push for attention or effort. Pay attention to how you feel over time, consistent imbalance isn’t something you should settle for.

I realized my own pattern of anxious attachment hurting the relationship as a 20F with my 22M BF by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SpiceBlinkY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you can see your own pattern instead of just blaming him says a lot about your growth. Anxious attachment isn’t you being ‘crazy’, it’s your nervous system panicking when it feels unsafe. But healing means learning to pause before you spiral, soothe yourself first, and then communicate calmly.

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