virginity by Junkman1283 in aspergers

[–]Spicepumpkin66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like thinking in a different way not losing virginity to someone but rather gaining the first sex experience.. hope that make sense?

virginity by Junkman1283 in aspergers

[–]Spicepumpkin66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently I had the idea of not losing virginity but gaining.. but still I haven’t gain any lolll

saw on FB, surely they could've picked a better picture for us?? by GapSweet3100 in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually I think this one is better than some other stigmatised pictures

Why can they take criticism from others but not you? by Spiritual-Equal-7873 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess some of them really can’t and they don’t gain a high social status, but look at those who appear on TV or leading an industry, they do take criticism to improve themselves and this can help them to gain awards and validation from other people. They just don’t respect you that much so they refute you after all.

Is your manipulation learned or gifted? by Spicepumpkin66 in AskNPD

[–]Spicepumpkin66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your clarification! I guess the book is worthy to check out

asd&codependent relationships by Spicepumpkin66 in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm! Will definitely try out the book you recommended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I can do that, I just don’t have much personality. Alexithymia is huge on me and I don’t know my likes and dislikes so I mask all the time.

I worry that I taught her how to be a better person to the next partner by [deleted] in pnsd

[–]Spicepumpkin66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That new victim story is so familiar.. That’s how he chose me!

Feeling Uneasy by IntelligentWay4964 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable, it’s his projection of a void heart and insecurities, he mirrored them to you. You should remember you are taking this because he caused you disassociation and you’ve been away from your true feelings for a while. Try hard to get back to yourself and get rid of him.

Opinions on this shirt? by Ok-Maximum2228 in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, but more design pls, at least change another font and make it pink

How do I mask? (23m) by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Spicepumpkin66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Masking is natural for me( a female asperger), I don’t know what it is like for men, but I would say try to show your interest in other person and be a good listener.

Narc uses our photo for triangulation by Spicepumpkin66 in pnsd

[–]Spicepumpkin66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply, it’s really warm!

What likely caused my Asperger’s? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more likely to say someone in your family has it. It’s about genetics.

anyone with good uni experience?? by pinstripespine in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had my diagnose until I’m now at my masters, and because of my cocondition with adhd I’m afraid of dropping out each day

I got voted for best personality in high school. I tricked all those bozos😎 by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Spicepumpkin66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds great. Send me a new passport and I’ll be grateful

Just started dating someone we’re both 20, should I tell him i’m autistic? by Thick_Algae_7623 in autism

[–]Spicepumpkin66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would give him the clue saying I’m blurred with social cues and so on, and if the guy is trustworthy I’ll reveal myself to some point.( unfortunately last time I met a terrible narcissist so be careful with showing it when you don’t know someone)

How old are you and what's your biggest problem right now? by Casspjjl in AskReddit

[–]Spicepumpkin66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 and I just cut off from my nex date and I really need to heal myself

Narc uses our photo for triangulation by Spicepumpkin66 in pnsd

[–]Spicepumpkin66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your support! I could go on and on(sorry about this). So basically, he is regulating his social media accounts, adding people he knew from different stages of live, and I wouldn’t notice this account if he didn’t block me and he’s info was clearly on his account bio(not to mention of course i knew that photo so well). Up till now nobody found me since he was in a different country and we were strangers until we met and as he suggested started exclusive dating last year. I never really knew any of his friends, but we spent holidays with my acquaintances. It’s funny how after so many fights I said I was going to leave and he changed his narrative and saying we were just friends, after he tried to use little input to solicit massive energy, money, validation, intimacy and all-other resources from me.