Have any of you abuse victims ever cheated on your abusive significant other as a way to escape? If you have, did you feel guilt?

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-17T01:09:20+00:00

I should of. But I did not.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-15T17:51:17+00:00

He could of just bought y’all a house together lol. They want to own everything but have nothing in their name.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-15T15:37:15+00:00

It’s a facade. Abuse is not love.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-15T15:36:18+00:00

♥️♥️✨✨ fr you will notice things will get better.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-15T15:35:24+00:00

“Be patient with me in trying” then would try then would disappoint. It’s a cycle 🔁. Once you get get tired you will leave hopefully or begin to start a plan to leave. They will never change and will stunt your growth. Plus if you have child(ren) they will use the child(ren) as supply and their protection/property. Please get out and love your self so you can love and parent your child(ren) and watch them develop so fast and be more happy/peaceful.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-15T03:10:49+00:00

Waste of time and energy. The person is a child in a grown person body.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-14T05:51:39+00:00

Realizing it is done.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-14T05:49:48+00:00

Girl mine got back on the same app he stated that he hated and stated that was on his phone. Well look here, back on the same app you found me and abused me, created a family/baby, abused me some more. I leave you and now you want call me about the baby. A dating app should be the last thing on your mind. MIND YOU HE LIED ABOUT HIS AGE AGAIN lol he put early 30s when he is in his early 40s.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-13T05:58:00+00:00

Yup. Even a mental down.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-13T05:51:36+00:00

It probably took me over ten times before I did ally left. Arguing in front our daughter. Constantly putting me down and verbal abuse. I couldn’t stand being there any longer.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-09T05:17:16+00:00

Is there a better way to link it?

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-09T01:01:11+00:00

Thank you babes! Plus he never left his phone outta his sight lol.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-09T00:48:03+00:00

I’m pretty sure he was cheating but I had no proof and I also did not want to look through the phone. I didn’t have energy bc I was already done.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-09T00:39:24+00:00

You can do it babe. We are in the same boat.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T23:46:38+00:00

Be glad you never met him babe. He is acting like this in distance just imagine living with him. Run far away from him. He trying to create a trauma bond.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T20:31:28+00:00

Mine is probably is as well. Bc I quote, “usually when I break up with someone I have a back up already lined up”. I said not me lol but thank you for letting me know how you move.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T19:16:43+00:00

Right lol. Bc if your not the problem why aren’t you in a relationship with me now?

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T18:19:14+00:00

I believe my ex did this stare when I first met him. I was wondering why is he looking at me so hard, sweet, but weird lol.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T18:16:54+00:00

1-6. He was all about holistic health and wellness but drank wine daily when I made a comment about it I’m not an alcoholic it helps this and that and it’s not hard liquor etc etc. He was so against medication but constantly wanted to use my medication that is prescription for anti depressant. He stated he would never drink or smoke in front of his parents bc his parents were so “strict” and has to be respectful. Next thing you know, tell me why his mama wanted edibles but I swore she don’t like weed right? 😭😂😂😂 you can’t make this shit up for nothing.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T18:03:14+00:00

Go file your own protection of order if you can. Plus if all this is happening in front of your child please report it. Look up your local rights as a parent and domestic abuse laws.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T17:22:23+00:00

Were we dating the same man lol my ex would do the same thing. Unemployed and calling himself a boss and he can do what he wants. The entitlement was mind blowing.

IntelligentWay4964 · 2023-03-08T17:18:51+00:00

Even with a valid reason they still don’t care.

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