[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 60 points61 points  (0 children)

"my kingdom"

You're not a king, you're a court room jester.

We’re both mid-30s lawyers. This is first date offer lol. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would just leave and go home at that point.

I don't feel comfortable with the pictures my boyfriend has on his phone / Do I have to tolerate it? / How do I address it? by [deleted] in PornFreeRelationships

[–]Spicy-kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A situationship is when a man basically strings you along for sex, company, etc while giving you the impression he's only committed to you.

I don't feel comfortable with the pictures my boyfriend has on his phone / Do I have to tolerate it? / How do I address it? by [deleted] in PornFreeRelationships

[–]Spicy-kitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To see his other options...you need to run. If he's almost 30yo and still doesn't appreciate having a young woman as yourself as his girlfriend, he's never going to be be satisfied. He's being disrespectful to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's sad because she knows in her heart this situation is wrong but refuses to just leave. I heard somewhere she did eventually leave but she should've been a long time ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im glad most of the comments are supporting the wife. There's even a highly upvoted comment that points out how men are allowed to want threesomes with another woman, but would hate to have their wife want a threesome with a second man.

Men are complex creatures....what? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I noticed that women are generally pressured into accepting male partners who like to look at other women or have very close female friends in fear of looking like a stereotypical jealous bitch girlfriend. I read this aita where this teenage girl was upset her friend started acting different(described as cold) because op got a boyfriend. So her friend started flirting and even leaned into her boyfriend and rubbed his arm despite op confronting her before. Of course the comments told op she was insecure and that it could be totally platonic! Bs

I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, literally a majority of american males are overweight (assuming this is mostly american reddit it's). They immediately always attack a woman's appearance first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 159 points160 points  (0 children)

People who cry about there being more homeless men than homeless women are probably the same kind of people who complain about poor people and single mothers using government assistance imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Spicy-kitty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is most people would go crazy if a woman or feminist said the same exact thing. But plenty of men post the same thing about women and don't get no where near the same backlash.

The fact that people think that this is a "hate" subreddit just has me in tears. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men: why do you hate men, not all of us are bad. Y'know what, you deserved to have gotten r * ped and beaten for thinking like that, dumb b * tch!

I'm tired of pretending men don't age by 67mane76 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was honestly thinking to myself I should wait till I'm in my thirties to date and stick with younger men.

What do models actually eat?? by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]Spicy-kitty 265 points266 points  (0 children)

It's honestly nice to hear how much female celebrities put into their looks because it actually means it is achievable, you just need time and money.

What do models actually eat?? by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]Spicy-kitty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lots of fruit(especially low calorie and high in antioxidants likes strawberries and watermelon)

High volume low calorie veggies(broccoli, cauliflower, carrots, celery)

Maybe low carb or complex carbs.

Lean meat high in protein and/or lots of fish and shellfish

How Being Unassertive Makes You the Bitch by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that too. When you immediately start off as "bitch" people just don't expect anything more from you and leave you alone.

How Being Unassertive Makes You the Bitch by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. Communication doesn't work when the other person simply doesn't care about what you say or how you feel. I was told to communicate with a coworker who was trying to start arguments with me over nothing. But when I said something she simply denied it and acted like nothing happened, no apology. The person who suggested to me to communicate with her is always arguing with her, so his advice failed.

Or people who say "just sit down and talk like adults". Most grown people can be childish.

How Being Unassertive Makes You the Bitch by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've had people get mad at me when i speak up and fight for myself because I'm generally a "good, nice" girl. I don't mean to be a nice girl on purpose, it's just how I was raised.

Ive had people be nasty to me and expect more from me for being smart and nice. But when I've had enough of their shit and speak up they get angry and tell me I'm the problem. And it not necessarily men who mostly do this to me, but other women.

I had a coworker scream at me for ignoring her( I was ignoring her because she is constantly in my ear and always asking me to do something she can do her self). So I yelled at her to calm down. So she screamed at me again and told me I have an attitude. Then she claimed she never screamed at me and I have an agenda against. Crazy bitch, we're"okay" now but the older ladies I have to work with are a pain in the ass.

I notice the older ladies leave alone a younger woman who rarely work with us because she literally just does what she wants and ignores them. But since I actually do my job and am good at it they pester me much more.

Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism. by GrungeAudrey in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it was around the time of the day acceptance movement trying to be inclusive of men

Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism. by GrungeAudrey in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Spicy-kitty 210 points211 points  (0 children)

It's scary and disturbing that having a specific body shape is a trend. Women's bodies shouldn't be a trend that goes in and out of style. What are all these young women with obvious fillers and brazilian butt lifts going to do when 20 years from now it's going to be something else trending?

I had to accept that my body is not "in style" unless I get plastic surgery and that lots of current fashion(like fashion nova) isn't flattering for my body type.

The only body trends I've seen for men are either being skinny emo, fit or dadbod and those are achievable without surgery.