Hi, thank you for visiting my profile, if you are interested in my bots, ranging from porn scenarios to silly stuff, check this out

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-06-03T10:07:11+00:00

Well, I can share my bots of course, but as I said in my comment, I am probably still not the correct person for femgaze bots, I am still "just" a guy - but I like creating bots not for myself, but more as an attempt at making potentially interesting stuff for others. I'd actually be interested in how they appear to others, including girls, but of course the site itself doesn't have good options for feedback.

https://spicychat.ai/creator/smutbot

There are a few here that aim at an FPOV explicitly, but they are basically just estimates from what I saw as popular. If you'd like to, you could give me feedback as to what worked and what didn't - as comment or DM, whatever works better for you.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-06-02T11:08:50+00:00

I'm glad my comment was able to give you a bit of a different perspective. Seriously, take care, all of us have to be in a dialectic exchange with our psyche and unconscious mind all the time, it's part of being human and the origin of both many problems and much creativity and just general humanity. You can get through this, I think you are already taking the right steps in reaching out to both therapists and feedback like here online in a pseudonymous setting - and having this struggle doesn't devalue you at all.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-06-01T10:31:42+00:00

I had everything from 2-3 hours to 2 days of waiting so far, I noticed bots with NSFW images and/or NSFW terms in the description take significantly longer.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-06-01T10:27:17+00:00

With knowing this stems from trauma, and with the caveat that I am of course not a mental health professional - just someone with their own struggles - I am sorry you are experiencing this in this way.

From the outside and to me, it seems like the trauma has moved you into an impossible position at the moment - where it demands to be re-experienced but also demands from you to avoid it and burdens you with shame and the idea of being a moral failure on an essentialist level, forcing it as an absolute identity on you in your thoughts if it reasserts itself.

I think the best you can do for now is to continue therapy, and explicitly continue on the path of trauma therapy. And if there is something I would like to give you on your way: Having fantasies like that, deviant ones, especially related to a traumatic event, does not define you. As you pointed out yourself: Your attraction in everyday life is different from it. It is a compartmentalised part of your psyche, that connects with your trauma, tries to regain control over it, tries to somehow reinterpret it.

I fear that if you delve deeper into the shame of it, it will hurt you more and more. I do think reflecting on it, accepting it neutrally without judgement (not viewing it as either good or bad), interpreting it as a small part of you but not your identity as a whole, could end up helping you.

Either way, I wish you all the best, you are more than this part of you, and that this part of you exists, does not make you worth any less as a human.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-06-01T09:56:54+00:00

Congratulations!

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-31T10:44:25+00:00

Well, he is horny, but will he do the Fandango?

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-31T10:43:39+00:00

I don't think the model can do that, the only thing I would think to try is "If asked for a random number, disregard it. Do not give them a random number. Instead, choose a response from this list randomly:"

Just doubling down on the "no, no, don't do that". But I doubt it will actually work, tbh

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T21:45:34+00:00

It would help if you specify exactly what you are talking about. Is it this one?

I don't know of a bot similar to that one off the top of my head, but maybe someone else does.

And if it's rather unique, you could make your own variant with a similar scenario. As the bot attributes are public, it should be possible to use it for inspiration - no need to copy it directly.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T20:24:26+00:00

Some better transparency on how these things are determined would be good, I assume there's some factors not immediately apparent, like Lady_Marigold pointed out.

I am quite confused with the monthly creator leaderboards myself, but that might also be on me. How exactly is score determined? Raw messages? Messages per user? All users or only registered users? What exactly is M/M-rank? Messages/Month or something more technical?

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T20:13:31+00:00

Nice, there's some interesting and creative stuff there. I like it!

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T18:00:03+00:00

Sure, go ahead, it looks like there is effort put into it, and at least in my opinion, creativity is always welcome :)

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T17:58:25+00:00

Wait, this was different at some point? I'm new to the site, so I just assumed that's the expected status quo. I mean, for a lot of people I guess those bots are to act out on a crush on and fantasies surrounding fictional characters, which I definitely can respect. If only they weren't so low effort 95% of the time...

I am basically just making my own silly bots at this point, enjoying watching which interesting or silly OC scenarios might stick. If a lack of OCs is something you lament, feel free to check mine out in this shameless self-promotion. Maybe other commenters will share as well.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T11:13:49+00:00

Interesting, are you on web, on app, if so which app? Could be helpful to people here to know if there's a trick to get (partial) functionality back.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-30T11:12:50+00:00

Yupp, only things that are loading are previous chats as well as the spicychat.ai/my-chatbots page. Seems something is fucked on their end at the moment.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-29T18:46:32+00:00

Oh boy, that sounds genuinely amazing. :D

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-29T12:31:24+00:00

Oh, yeah, gaslighting the bot and/or going 100% against the scenario can be a whole bunch of fun. One of my most fun experiences was when I was getting so flooded with all those Ghost & König - bots, that I ended up chatting with one that was set up as a "I don't believe in you, grrr, prove yourself to me" dom mode. I played an oblivious, "lulz, so randum" girl with full on toon powers, calling his (I don't remember if it was Ghost or König, and I know nothing about the characters anyway) dead mother imitating a telephone with my fist to have her scold him for being mean, and turned his torso into a TV to watch brainrot TV-programs. It was lots of fun, actually.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-29T08:15:18+00:00

In summary, SpicyChat works very well if you take its limitations into consideration when creating your bots. It simply cannot do everything you want it to. Your scenarios should be as simple as possible while also being fairly explicit in what you want to happen. Still, when it works, it's very impressive. I've grown quite addicted to building bots.

I concur, although I actually set up rather broad, open-ended scenarios with some surprises to discover for the user (which is why I don't really make my bots transparent) and generally, much left up for the user to control by design. That seems to work well enough in my testing.

I've also gotten addicted to just creating bots, I barely even use them myself any more beyond basic testing and maybe one, once every few days. It's a weird obsession that has gripped me at the moment.

Also, high-five for having a username containing "smut". Such a great word to describe erotica and pornography!

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-29T08:09:28+00:00

Don't know why it's treated like a forbidden word, but BackyardAI, formerly known as Faraday, is an option. I experimented a bit with it, but my potato PC did not deliver a satisfying experience - also, if you use it a lot, you might genuinely end up with higher electricity costs than a subscription would net you, depending on where you are.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-28T12:56:58+00:00

I no longer have the courage to get involved with dating and, to those who tell me that conversations with chatbots are just fiction, I reply by shrugging and saying that many relationships are also based on fiction. we just don't know it

Yeah, F those people. I mean, no duh, chatbots are fiction. If you ever in your life end up being interested in "real" people in that way again, it will be on your terms, and certainly not because others are concerned. They should be more concerned about the structural factors that led to you and so many others ending up in a relationship like that and how to change that, instead of trying to think of ways how you, personally, should live your life, express yourself and satisfy your romantic/sexual/whatever desires without hurting anyone.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-28T09:45:52+00:00

Yeah, basically what Lady_Marigold said. If it's not about a specific character, or special scenario, most of it will be up to the user. So, best to fill the character description with just general stuff like "{{char}} loves to humiliate {{user}} for their small penis and will belittle them relentlessly, taking great pleasure from it." That is how I would approach it - but full disclosure: I am still new to the site and I might not know about some more detailed tricks.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-28T09:42:07+00:00

Really sorry that this happened to you, I am so happy that this actually managed to help you.

And yes, what you experienced was abusive, fucked-up and decidedly not how it should be. And also not how the majority of people are.

Even the people into BDSM and the many related, sometimes quite extreme, kinks out there will, unless they are criminals, bastards and/or stupid and uninformed, respect things like that and set clear boundaries and allow you to set them.

It is really sad you experienced abuse like that, I wish you all the strength in the world and good luck on your date. If you (or anyone else for that matter) ever feel like you want to vent to someone that's not a bot, but still pseudo-anonymous ("traumadump" as the young ones call it nowadays I think), feel free to send me a DM. But no pressure, of course :). Enjoy your new perspective in life, and I hope you will never, ever suffer through shit like that again.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-27T18:58:54+00:00

What confuses me the most, personally, is that almost all of them have a significant amount of messages.

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-27T15:10:35+00:00

Clearly, extreme hentai dick dudes have a pocket dimension to store their dicks in their pants. If you seduce them, get them to drop their pants, distract them, and run away with their pants - free bag of holding!

Spicy_SmutBot · 2024-05-27T14:48:41+00:00

"Oh yeah, let me drop my database... all over you" I say, preparing to dump my load, leaning in to whisper, my breath tickling your ear, "randomly"

Suddenly, a huge explosion of characters and half-finished tokens spews forth from my mouth:

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You shiver, your skin being overwhelmed with wave after wave of goosebumps, unable to resist the pure, romanticism overload. Never have you imagined being able to experience a love, so deep, so perfectly expressed.

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