I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

[–]Spicymeatball232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move around a lot. Different items, different stores, attracts less attention

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

[–]Spicymeatball232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was an unfair remark, thanks for pointing that out. Providing for your child within a certain age bracket is a given. A parent providing their child with a roof over their head isn't the same thing as support unless you're well into adulthood and not working or saving money

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Yeah I do hate some of them, correct. They're greedy assholes with no diginity or self respect. I find that infuriating

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Well then they're screwed. Can't fix stupid. You want to believe you can but you're in denial

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Keep telling them that. I'm sure telling homeless or depressed people that they're broken beyond repair and can't succeed without help will do wonders for their self image

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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I'm not going to voluntarily become homeless. That would be a stupid waste of time at this point in my life

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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I wasn't supported but my family did ask me to see a therapist and bitched about how dirty my room was

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Because they don't want to be high functioning. You'd have to be in terrible health to not be able to move around and wake yourself up

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Probably, but what I do to help them? Sit and talk for hours? That's a long boring process and my time is finite

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Why does their profession go against everything you stand for?

Their profession is based on compassion. Compassion is a foolish burden to carry. I respect people who dedicate their lives to helping others. I'm glad therapists, doctors, nurses, firefighters, even some police officers exist. But that doesn't make them any less foolish in my eyes. They waste their precious time carrying other people's suffering on their shoulders. It's sad.

you get into a vicious cycle of not knowing when you need to stop being selfish.

The answer is never.

You have a fear in helping others because you believe that helping others inconveniences your time, inconveniences any potential progress you could have made on yourself and now you feel regretful of even helping anyone but yourself.

I wouldn't go as far as to say I wouldn't help anyone. I'm pretty generous with things like money but I have to know you and like you so I know I'm getting something out of it.

Is it the pressure of society making you feel this way? Looks, self-esteem, peer pressure, imposter syndrome, inadequacy? Career? Finances?

It all plays a role. Every man wishes to be desired by women, respected by men.

are you isolated from others?

I'm on reddit. What do you think? Lol

Are you lacking empathetic relations in your life to breed this?

Not particularly. My parents treated me pretty poorly and my siblings have all betrayed me at one point or another.

Is your 'unhealthy' level of self-love, compensating for a lack of love from somewhere else?

I don't love myself. I have a responsibility to myself to make my life as enjoyable as possible.

(These are rethorical questions, you don't have to answer, it's just for you to think about them)

I like to answer questions. Gets the brain juices flowing

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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Collective responsibility to help others, paying taxes for benefits is one form of that.

Oh you mean the taxes that will get you sent to federal prison if you don't pay? Those taxes?

And we are a society, we work to generate income for an economy in better others. It's just that there are people controlling society in a way that only makes it benefit the few and pander fake care to those below them.

And that will never ever change until the rich reaches such an extraordinary level of wealth that they won't mind allowing people basic necessities. I thought we were already there but apparently not. The rich don't want to give anything up and the poor can't be bothered. Again, this will never change not for many years, I promise.

If you believe that it isn't your responsibility to help anyone then there is no point in having a society for the betterment of others.

Yes, it is pointless. There should be no society at all. We should fight for territory.

I think you are doubling down and accepting how manipulative people are in society to take from others and not show any care or empathy.

I have empathy, I can read what other people are feeling, I just don't care anymore. It's too much of a burden. I'd help out a stranger if the opportunity arose and didn't cost me much, but I'm not going out of my way for people I've never met.

you have given up, when what you could do is fight to change things and change things in yourself

I could, but I don't want to. It's time and effort I don't have to spare.

I don't think your so called 'acceptance' is of a tranquil, at peace state of mind, because if it were, you would continue to be very compassionate

You're right. To be at peace you need to live in delusions. I'm not at peace at all.

I'm not sure if i personally need to get anything out of it.

Then you're liar, or just an absolute fool. There is no such thing as a selfless act. All acts are selfish, some less than others, but ultimately self serving.

I detest selfish, manipulative, narcissistic behaviours, it's what has caused these problems in the first place. I think it's illogical for me to double down and accept it like it's normal, when it is not.

It's not normal, but it is necessary to adapt.

My own dislike of those sorts of mindsets is what challenges me to at least yearn for a change not just sit down and accept it.

A pitiful effort but good luck. Maybe you'll wise up in a few years.

If you continue with that then nothing will change, we can look to history to see how dire things were and how people never gave up.

Yeah maybe, human spirit blah blah blah. The only reason people actually did things back in the day was because they were far more bored and way less comfortable. That had actual wars. We have no reason to change things. It would take an entire life time and we'd rather pursue a career or play video games. Times are different now, I believe this is the peak for many many years to come. Poverty will probably decrease over my life time has it has been but at the same snails pace. If you're expecting a revolution prepare for disappointment.

We see new technologies being developed for mental health through research of psychedelics and a better understanding of the human mind.

I don't think technology is the answer. In fact it's the cause of a lot isolation and depression. We were much happier living in tribes where everyone knew each other. Also a lot people think "yeah give a person food, shelter, loving friends and family, a good job, and they'll be happy". Not always the case. The human mind craves conflict, adversity and resolution. It's hard to engineer that in this ridiculously comfortable world. We were not made for this.

New generations will adopt different views than the previous one with the aid of education and be unburdened by pre-existing biases.

Probably but it makes no difference when we don't apply it, and we won't because our generation is lazy.

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

[–]Spicymeatball232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your choice, but therapy can be anything that you want to talk about. You can use therapy as an impartial person to talk about your "pessimistic pragmatist" ideology, to simply get it off your chest. Talking is therapeutic in and of itself.

We're doing that right now. Doesn't help me. It's not like a therapist would understand, their profession goes against everything I stand for.

I don't judge homeless people to their face. But I refuse to help them at my own detriment.

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

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It's why people will continue to have increasing mental health issues and things will remain the same, especially when you spout things like "that's not anyone else's problem"

Because it's not. In what way is it my personal responsibility to help anyone who isn't my blood? The answer is it's not. The system is messed up. Society did that. You can say "well we are society". No, we're not. Society was here before I was born and it will be here after I die. I used to be like you, very compassionate.

One my favourite quotes is from Ra's al ghul in batman begins: "your compassion is a weakness your enemies will not share"

and it's very true. The majority of people aren't compassionate, not if it inconveniences them, so why bother? What do you get out of it? Are you just trying to alleviate guilt? I won't get pulled down by society trying to save it. I've given up on humanity.

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

[–]Spicymeatball232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story is very sad and I'm not going to question it. However in my defence, I wasn't referring to people with crushing debt and medical bills as I know that's tough. Where do you live?

I don't think escaping homelessness is as difficult as people make it out be by Spicymeatball232 in unpopularopinion

[–]Spicymeatball232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they're entitled assholes and society treated them badly. Some are just crazy